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**AS SALAMU ALAIKUM WA RAHMATULLAHI WA BARAKATAHU 》EK SOCH EK FIQR APNI ZINDAGI KO KAMYAB BANANE KI Part (04) topic Qamyaab NIKAH *
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*Aaj kal ka nikah aur 1400 saal pahle ka nikah*
Hazrat Sahal Radiallah anhu bayan karte hain ke Nabi e kareem Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ki khidmat me ek aurat hazir hui aur us ne arz kia
ya Rasool Allah ﷺ
mai isliye hazir hui hun ki apni zaat Aap Sallallahu alahi wasallam ko hiba kar du
Nabi e kareem Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ne use dekha aur poori tarah se neeche se uper tak jaiza liya phir aap ne apna sare mubarak jhuka liya
Jab us aurat ne dekha ke Aap Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ne us ke bare me koi faisla nahi farmaya to ek taraf ho kar baith gayi
Phir Sahaba e kiram Radiallahu anhuma me se ek sahabi uthe unhone arz kiya : Ya Rasoollallah Sallallahu alahi wasallam, agar aap ko is ki zaroorat na ho to is ka nikah mere sath kar dijiye
Aap Sallallahu alahi wasallam ne pucha :
Tumhare paas (mehar dene k liye) kuch hai?
Unhone ne arz kiya : Allah ki qasam ya Rasoollallah, mere paas kuch nahi hai
Aap Sallallahu alahi wasallam ne farmaya : apne ghar jaa kar dekho kya koi cheez dastyab ho sakti hai ?
Wo ghar gaye aur wapas aa kar arz kiya : Allah ki qasam ya Rasool Allah ﷺ muje ghar me bhi koi cheez nahi mili
Aap Sallallahu alahi wasallam ne farmaya : talash karo aur dekho khwah lohe ki anguthi hi mil jaye
Chunanche wo fir ghar gaye aur wapas aa kar kahne lage : ya Rasool Allah ﷺ Allah ki qasam lohe ki anguthi bhi nahi hai Albatta ye mera zere jama (tehbnd) zaroor hai
Hazrat Sahal Radiallahu
anhu ne kaha ke un ke paas chadar bhi na thi
Un sahabi ne kaha : Main is (tehband) me se aadha bataure mehar dene ko tayyar hun
Is par Aap Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ne farmaya : wo tumhare tehband ko le kar kya karegi kyun k ise to agar tum pahnoge to is aurat par kuch na hoga aur agar ise pahnne doge to tum par kuch na hoga
Is ke baad wo shakhs baith gaye aur kafi der baithe rahe fir uthe (aur jaane lage)
Jab Rasoollallah Sallallahu alahi wasallam ne unhe peeth mod kar jaate dekha to Aap Sallallahu alahi wasallam ne unhe bulwaya
Jab wo aa gaye to Aap Sallallahu alahi wasallam ne farmaya : tumhe Qur'an me se kuch yaad hai?
Unhone arz kiya : k muje falan falan sooratein yaad h.Us ne gin kar sooraton ke naam bataye
Aap Sallallahu alahi wasallam ne pucha : kya tum in sooraton ko zubani apne hafze ki madad se padh sakte ho ?
Us ne arz kiya : Haa,
Aap Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ne farmaya : accha ise le jao yeh main ne tumhare qabze me di (yaani ise tumhare nikah me diya) Us Qura'an ke Aewaz jo tumhe yaad hai (yaani itna Qur'an ise seekha dena)
(SAHIH BUKHARI KITAB FAZAIELUL QUR'AN BAAB 22)
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Ek aur hadees me aata hai Aap Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ne farmaya nikah ko aasan banao aur zinakari ko mushkil banao (Tirmizi)
Jab k aaj is ka ulta ho raha hai ham ne nikah ko to mushkil bana diya h aur zina ko aasan kar diya hai.
ALLAHU AKBAR...
Uper bayan ki gaye is hadees pai gaur kiya jaye to is se hame kaafi kuch seekhne ko milta hai
1) Is hadees se pata chalta hai ke sirf ladka hi apna rishta nahi de sakta balke ladki walo ko bhi ijazat hai ke wo rishte ke liye apni taraf se pahal kar sakte hai
2) Bageir wali ke nikah nahi ho sakta.Nikah ke liye wali ka hona shart hai
3) Aap Sallallahu alahi wasallam ne jab us aurat ka nikah karwaya to ladke se pucha ke tumhare paas kya hai dene ko Jab k hmare yaha ladki walo s pucha jata hai ke jahez me kya doge ? Afsos da Afsos
4) Hamare mu'ashre me ek riwaaj aur hai ke ladke ki saas ya sasur ladke ko (mangni pakki ke waqt ) sone ki anguthi ya salami Aisa kuch dete hai ye fazool kharchi hai
5) hadees me ye bhi bataya gaya hai ke agar koi shakhs nikah karta hai to wo aurat us ke liye tab tak halal nahi hogi jab tak ke wo us ka haq e mehar ada na kar de Jab ke hamare kafi bhai is baat se la ilm hai Ya jaan kar Anjan bhi bante hai
Nikah me apni badai shan o shaukat dikhane ko 50,0000 tak ke mehar likhwana apni shan samjhte hai bhale wo is ki istita'at na rakhte ho bass naam karne ko aesa karte hai Kahte h k dena na dena apne uper he
Aur apni biwiyo ke is haq ko ada krna unhe nagwar guzarta hai
Haa ye aurat ko ikhtiyar hai wo aap ko kuch mohlat de 2/3 saal ya is se zyada ya chahe to maaf kar de Aap us par mehar maaf karane k liye zabrdasti nahi kar sakte
6) Hamare mu'ashre me Nikah karte waqt ye dekha jata hai ke ladke ya ladki ka status kiya hai us ka bank balence kitna hai ladki ke naam kya kar raha, gold kitna hai etc.....
jab ke Sahabi e Rasool ke paas ghar me bazahir kuch nahi hai is ka ye matlab nahi ke wo nikah ke liye perfect nahi hai un se nikah nahi karna.Is baat ko Aap Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ya un sahabi Radiallah anhu ne tarzeeh nahi di Tarzeeh di un ki deendaari ko Un ki deendari ki bina par un ka nikah us aurat se karwa diya
7) aur sab se aakhir me fizool kharchi jo ke hmare mu'ashre me Aam hai
Nikah ke mauqe par ladke ya ladki ke kapdo se le kar dawat ke tamam intizam is bina par hote hai ke kahi koi kami na rah jaye ye lagna chahiye ke falan ke ladke ya ladki ki shadi hai
Qura'an me ALLAH TA'ALA ka irshad hai "Fizool Kharchi Karne Wale Toh Shaitan Ke Bhai Hain Aur Shaitan Apne Parwardigar Ki Naimatoun Ka Kufraan Karne Wala, Yaani Na Shukra Hai"
(SURAH AL ISRA : 2Shadi Islam mein kabhi itna Bada masla Aur itna Bada issue tha Hi Nahi, jitna Aaj Hum musalmano Ne Bana Diya Hai Aur Hum musalmano Ko Hi ise theek Bhi karna Hoga,. Lekin Aaj Hum
Naujawano Ne Apni zindagi ko is galeez Aur Be'huda duniya ka mute'ee, iska Aadi Aur iske tabey Bana Liya or
duniya ki mohabbat me is qadr doob gaye hain ke hame apni zindagi ka asal maqasad hi bhool gaye Aur Talima'at e DEEN or khidmat e deen or sunnato se mehroom Ho kar Rah gaye..
Aaj har insaan ki khwahish hai ke wo apni ya apni aulad ki shaadi ko duniya ki nazar me itni mahngi se mahngi karen
Main Apne tamam Bhaiyo, Behno Aur dosto se Guzarish karta Hun ki Apni Apni shadiyan sunnat ke mutabiq karen, jisme kharch kam Ho Aur Barkaten zyada Ho., Apni zindagi ka maqsad DEEN ki sar Bulandi Aur Sarfarazi Banayen, DEEN ke har shobe mein mehnat karne ki koshish karen., Apne jayez Aur Halal kamayi ko jayez Aur halal jagah Hi Lagayen..
Isi fizool kharchi ki bina par hamari kai bahno ke rishte nahi ho paate q ke un ke gareeb maa baap itne kharch ki istita'at nahi rakhte
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POST NO, (38)
*INVITATION CARD PAR BADE ALFAAZ ME LIKHA JAATA HAI*
*🌹AN NIKAH MIN SUNNATI🌹*
Jab ke Afsos Us Nikah me sunnat ke mutabiq bahut kam amal dekhne ko milta hai sirf dikhawa aur showoff q ke kharcha bhi to karna hai
Is qadar ba barkat aur saadagi s nikah bhala kisi ka ho sakta hai jis ke charche aaj bhi 1400 saal baad hamari zuban par hai
Shaadi ek bahut badhi musibat ban gai hai aur ise musibat humne hi banaya hai Ye hamare ikhteyar me hai ke hum apne ladki ki shaadi kis tarah karen ya ham apne ladki ki shaadi kis tarah kare Kasam khuda ki aaj ke shaadi ko dekh kar rona Aata hai.Milad shareef bhi hoti hai aur fir milad shareef ke khatam hone ke baad poori raat gaana bajta hai
MAAZ ALLAH
Aye mere sunni bhaiyon aur bahno aaj Ahed kar lo ki jitna ho sake apne se ushad tak shariyat par amal karenge warna qayamat ke deen koi bahana na chalega
Aaj ladke se puchho ke bhai tum jahez kyun le rahe ho to kahte hai sab lete hai pahle wala zamana gaya agar puchho ke gana kyu bajate ho to kahte hai ye to mere bhai ka shouk hai ya apna ya kisi aur ka naam bata dete hain
Yaad rakho zamana ko mat dekho aur na apne shouk aur na bhai ke shouk aur na baap ke shouk ko agar shariyatke khilaf hai to
Aur haan agar bhai ki shaadi ho ya bahenki ya kisi bhi dost ki ya rishtedar ki ap ke mana kar ne par wo nahi mane to ap us shaadi me sharik mat hona. Agar aaj bhi ap ke jazbe mozboot hai to koi mushkil nahi shariyat pe amal karna
Hazrat e ali radi Allahu anhu farmate hain dunya tumhe tab tak nahi hara sakti jab tak tum khud se na har jao
Aur upar jo hadees guzri uske is zumle par gour kariye
Nikah ko itna aasan banao ke zinakari mushkil hojaye
Aasan banao ?
Aasan banao ?
Kis se kaha gaya? hamse hi kaha gaya isse ye bhi pata chala hum chahe to Nikah ko Aasan bana le ya chahe to mushkil.Jabki Aasan banane me faida hai dunya wa Aakhirat har jagah aur mushkil banane me Nuqshan yahan bhi wahan bhi
Bade afsos ki baat hai aaj ka musalman apni puri zindagi ghar banane aur apne ladke aur ladkiyon ki shaadi karne mi hi khatam kar dete hain
Ilm hasil kariye sabse pahle zaroori hai tabhi ham sahi aur galat ko pahchan payenge aur agar sahi galat ki pahchan ke baad bhi jaise taise zindagi guzar rahe hain hum to phir kya hi nuqshan ki zindagi jeete hain hum
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Shadi Islam mein kabhi itna Bada masla Aur itna Bada issue tha Hi Nahi, jitna Aaj Hum musalmano Ne Bana Diya Hai Aur Hum musalmano Ko Hi ise theek Bhi karna Hoga,. Lekin Aaj Hum
Naujawano Ne Apni zindagi ko is galeez Aur Be'huda duniya ka mute'ee, iska Aadi Aur iske tabey Bana Liya or
duniya ki mohabbat me is qadr doob gaye hain ke hame apni zindagi ka asal maqasad hi bhool gaye Aur Talima'at e DEEN or khidmat e deen or sunnato se mehroom Ho kar Rah gaye..
Aaj har insaan ki khwahish hai ke wo apni ya apni aulad ki shaadi ko duniya ki nazar me itni mahngi se mahngi karen
Main Apne tamam Bhaiyo, Behno Aur dosto se Guzarish karta Hun ki Apni Apni shadiyan sunnat ke mutabiq karen, jisme kharch kam Ho Aur Barkaten zyada Ho., Apni zindagi ka maqsad DEEN ki sar Bulandi Aur Sarfarazi Banayen, DEEN ke har shobe mein mehnat karne ki koshish karen., Apne jayez Aur Halal kamayi ko jayez Aur halal jagah Hi Lagayen..
Aur ek Baat Hamesha yaad Rakhen ki Ek Alfaz Hota Hai sunnat, Aur ek Alfaz Hota Hai Rasm, Agar kahin kisi jagah Rasm Alfaz Aa jaye to phir woh DEEN nahi hai Balki Logo ki Apni Gadhi Huwi cheez hogi, jise na karna Hi Behatar Hain., kyun ki sunnat ko chhodna Gunah ka ba'is Hain.. Meri Apne Azeez Aur Aqraba se Guzarish Hai ki Rishta Lagane mein DEENDARI, SEERAT Aur KIRDAR Ko tarjeeh den Aur Dahej jaisi Lanat ko darkinar karen, na Le Aur Na Den, INSHAALLAH is tarah Hum Apne mu'ashre ko ek mukammal Islami mu'ashre Bana Payenge..
JAZAKALLAHU KHAIRAN KASEERAN KASEERAH..
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*Asan Shadi Kush Hall Wa Ba Barkat Zindagi*
*Hazrat Ayesha Raziallahu Anhuma Farmati Hain Keh RasoolAllah Sallallahu Alahi wa sallam Ne Irshad Farmaya: Sab Se Ba Barkat Shadi Wo Hai jis Me Akhrajat Wa Masarif (Kharcha) kam Se Kam Hun*
Reference:-(Musnad Ahmed 24529)
*Mangni, Rukhsati, Aur Valima Ke Mauqe Par Naam O Namood Aur Jhuti Shan Ke Liye Haiseyet Se Badhkar Kharch Aur Israf Ne Shadi ke Akhrajat Ku Be Intiha Badha Diya Hai *Bhari Bharkam Akhrajat ki Wajah Se Na jane Kitni Ladkiyan Shadi ke Intizar Me Baithi Hain Kitne Walidain Aur Bhai Kisb E Ma'ash Ke Haram Tareequn ki Taraf Pade Hain, Ya Qarz Ke Aise Bujh Tale Dab Rahe Hain ke Sar Uthana Mushkil Hai , Kitni Jaidaden (Property) Jhuti Shan Ke Liye Kawai Ja Choki Hain , Aur Kitne He Khandan Shadi ke Bad Barbad Ho Choke Hain---*
*Khudara..! Mua'ashre Par Raham Khaiye - Sunnat e Nabawi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam Aur Sadgi Ku Apnaiye*
*IKHRAJAT: OR USKA NUKSAAN*
Shadi mein apne ikhrajat kam se kam rakhne chahiye, Hadees mein ata hai ki sabse barkat wala nikah wo hai jisme ikhrajat sabse kam hon. Darasal aajkal hota ye hai ki log shadi mein apni haisiyat se zyada karch karne ki koshsih karte hain aur udhar lekar karte bhi hain. jab udhar lekar shadi mein apni haisiyat se zyada kharcha kar diya jata hai to phir udhar ko wapas karne ka number ata hai, idhar shadi ke bad already ikhrajat badh jate hain aur upar se shadi ke dino mein liya gaya udhar bhi sar par sawar rehta hai jisse tama'am tarah ki takleefe, pareshaniya, ghussa aur tension hoti hai,
Aaj aap dekh lijiye barkate kahtam ho gayi hain, idhar shadi hui nahi ki kabhi miyan biwi mein ladayi, kabhi saas aur bahu ka jhagda, kabhi nand aur bhawaj ka jhagda ye Aam si batein ho gayi hai aur iski wajah sirf ikhrajat ko Asman tak pahunchana hai, kahin 5 saal ka mansooba, kahin 3 sal ka mansooba, kahin kuch to kahin kuch ek Ajeeb sa bojh hai maashre par jo dikhayi nahi deta,
lekin sirf uska reaction in tama'am cheezo ke zariye nazar Aata hai. isiliye hamare Aaqa sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ne apni mubarak hadees mein kam ikhrajat wale nikah ko barkat wala nikah kaha hai. Aaj humein bhi chahiye ki shadiyon mein apne ikhrajat ko control mein laye aur apni haisiyat ke mutabiq kharch kare lekin haisiyat ka matlab ye nahi ki israf shuru ho jaye. Kuch logo ke zehen mein ye bat ati hai ki bhai mere pas paisa hai main kharch karu kisi ka kya jata hai ya kharch kar diya to kaun sa gunah kar diya to INSHAALLAH ispar agey Ane wale post mein byaan aur jawab diya jayega.Aap sabko
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POST NO, (41)
🌹HAQ-E-MEHER:🌹
Meher, ye Dulha ka farz aur dulhan ka haq hai, aur haisiyat ke mutabiq ho jo ba-asani ada ho sake aur jald ada karne ki koshish honi chahiye, behtar to ye hai ki cash mein ho lekin agar udhar bhi hai to bhi use behadd jaldi ada karna chahiye. Ye karz hota hai Dulha par, ALLAH ke Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ki ek hadees ka mafhoom hai ki "Jisne kamobesh kuch meher tay kiya ho aur uski ada karne ki niyat na ho to wo qayamat ke din ALLAH ke nazdeeq ek ZANI ki haisyat se pesh hoga".
Aap khud sochiye ki kitni sakht waeed hai is meher ko lekar lekin aaj to ek riwaaj chal gaya hai maaf karane ka, dulhan ki razamandi aur uski khushi se mafi ki gunjaish to hai lekin use ada kar dena he behtar hai. Jabran maafi to hai he nahi ki hum apne zor par mehr maaf karwa le agar koi aisa karega to kal ALLAH ke huzoor usko jawab dena padega.
Ek aur zaroori baat ye hai ki iske taye karane mein bahut zyada dikkate pesh Aane lagi hain ladki wale chahte hain ki ye zyada se zyada ho aur ladke wale chahte hain ki kam se kam ho, dono fariqain ko motadil mizaj hokar is masale par bat karni chahiye ki na ladke wale ko zyada lage aur na he ladki walo ko kam lage,
ab aisa bhi nahi hona chahiye ki ladke ki income 7000 hai aur uski meher 50,000 ya 60,000 tay kar di jaye ya aisa bhi na ho ki 100 ya 200 tay ho jaye isko bohat he saleeqe se aur bohat pyar aur mohabbat ke sath taye kar lena chahiye. Aise kayi waqiyat sunne mein aaye hain ki bara'at wale din Meher ko lekar kuch bat hui aur bat itni badh gayi ki Dulha bara'at lekar wapas chala gaya, to aisa bhi nahi hona chahiye. Ke meher ko itna mahnga kar diya jaye ke ladka use poora karne ki ta'aqat hi na rakhta ho .....
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POST NO,( 42)
*BARA'AT OR BARATIYON KA KHAANA*
BARAAT: Aaj kal jis tarah se pura lao lashkar le jakar ladki ke ghar walo par ek bojh daala jaata hai iska suboot kahin kisi Quran se saabit nahi hai aur na he Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ki kisi Hadees-e-Mubarika se. phir bhi aaj Bara'at ke bina shayd he koi shadi hoti ho,
Ek to ladki wale Jahej (SARAPA LANAT) de aur phir unke ghar jakar pura khandan aur dost aur ahbab milkar khana khaye,or usme bhi koi kami rah jaye to tarah tarah ki baate karen aaj kal to badi zabardasti hone lagi hai ki Ladki wale agar 150 admi kahte hain to Ladke wale 200 to le kar jate he hain unhe isse koi matlab nahi ki jisne 150 admi ka intizam kiya hoga agar wahan 200 admi pahunch gaye to unka kya hoga,
Aur ye sareehan haram hai ki agar ladki walo ne 150 admi kahe aur ladke wale 200 le gaye to jo 50 admi zayed bara'at mein jayenge aur jo kuch khayenge wo sab ka sab Haram mein dakhil hoga.
ALLAH TA'ALA HUM SABKO SUNNAT E RASOOL SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM KE MUTABIK NIKAH KARNE KI TAUFEEQ ATA FARMAYE AAMEEN......
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*KHANE KA INTIZAM AUR TAREEKA:*
Khana aur intizam baithne ka sara ka sara kafiro ke mushabe hai, Khane mein buffey system chal gaya hai aisa lagta hai ghode astabal mein ghas kha rahe hain, koi idhar khade hokar kha raha hai to udhar khade hokar, koi adha baitha hai to koi poora baitha hai, sare tareeke se khana kha lenge lekin sunnat tareeka apnane mein apni shan ko kam samjha jata hai.
Ab to yahan tak ho gaya hai ki 2 table laga di jati hai taki insan baith kar kha le aur sare janwar khade hokar he khaye, jis tarah se wo kahne aur pine mein janwar bane hain un kuffar ki dekha dekhi humne bhi bilkul janwaro wale tarz ikhtiyar kar liye hain. Jab ki agar dekha jaye to baith kar khana har lihaz se behtar hai. Khane mein itne item rakh diye jate hain ki admi wahan tak pahunch nahi pata aur uska pet bhar jata hai,
Ek walima mein main gaya kafi paise wale they wo janab wahan par 6 tarah se sirf murgha bana tha, 2 tarah ki biryani, 3 tarah ki roti aur baki to Aap log Andaza laga he sakte hain ki kya alam hoga khane ka,
itna israf tha us walime ki dawat mein ki dil mein ajeeb si kudhan ho rahi thi. bar bar zehen mein yahi jata hai ki akhir itna paisa lagane ki kya zaroorat hai, itna israf kar ke kya hansil hoga jabki ye sabhi jante hain ki JAYEZ KHARCH KIYA TO HISAB DENA HAI AUR NAJAYEZ KARCH KIYA TO SAZA JHELNI HAI dono he tarah se hum musalmano samjhaya gaya hai ki israf ki Islam mein qatayi ijazat nahi hai,
Aur yahan to logo ne intiha aur hade par kar rakhi hain, yahi wo log hain jinke israf ki wajah hamari beshumar behne aaj gharo par baithi hui hain.
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*JAHEJ (SARAPA LANAT)OR ISKE NUKSANAAT*
Ye ek aisi lalach hai jiski wajah se aaj lakho karodo behne bina shadi ke ghar baithi hui hain, kyunki unke pas apne ghaleez aur lalchi shauhar ko dene ke liye paisa nahi hai,
yahi wo lanat hai jiski wajah se aaj na jaane kitne ghar barbad ho chuke hain. na jane kitni bahne ghar baithi hui hain, kisi ko car chahiye to ksii ko bike, koi ye mangta phir ta hai to koi wo mangta phirta hai,
Ajeeb bikhari bane huey hain hum sab.jab hamari bahen ghar par baithi hoti to hum par kya ghuzarti, jaye aur jakar pooche un walidain se, aur un bhaiyo se jinke pas dene ke liye paisa nahi hai islye unki bachchiya Aaj bhi acchi khaasi umar ke bad bhi ghar par baithi hui hain,
kya hum se roz e qayamat iska sawal nahi hoga, ki ek shaqs apni ek beti ki shadi mein 5 - 5 lakh rupaye kharch kar raha hai aur kahin 25 se 50 hazar ka intizam nahi ho pa raha hai ki unki betiyo ki shadi ho sake.
Kya humme ghairat bachi hai? kya humme islamiyat bachi hai? kya hum me zarra barabar bhi ALLAH aur uske mahboob.SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM se aur unke tareeke se Mohabbat bachi hai? aaj humein wo hadeese yad hi nahi jo ek Musalman bhai ke huqooq batati hain,
Aaj humein hadeese yaad he nahi jo Padosiyo ke huqooq batati hain. Aaj hum itne behiss ho chuke hain ki hum sab kuch jante hain lekin us par amal nahi karte.
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*بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
*الصلوة والسلام عليك يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم*
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*🌹WALIMA KI DAWAT 🌹*
*Bismillahirrahmanirrahim*
(HADEES E PAAK > Waleema ka wo khana badtareen khana hai jismein sirf maaldaron ko dawat di jaye
Abu Hurairah Radi allahuanhu se rivayat hai ki waleema ka wo khana badtareen khana hai jismein sirf maaldaron ko dawat di jaye aur mohtajon ko na khilaya jaye aur jisney waleema ki dawat Qubul karney se inkar kiya usney ALLAH aur uskey Rasool (Sallallahu Alaihi wasallam) ki nafarmani ki
*Sahih Bukhari, Vol 6, 5177*
Walima dulha ki janib se hota hai, ye ek dawat hoti hai jisme chand logo ko bulakar khana khilaya jata hai aur ye bhi haisiyat ke mutabiq he hona chahiye naki sirf dikhawe aur showoff ke liye ki "Kamayi chand kaudiyo ki aur walima thath bath wala"
Aur shadi ke bad phir dikkat aur pareshaniyo ka nuzool. Walima se mutalliq be'shumaar hadeese hain aur Huzoor Nabi-E-Akram SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam aur Sahaba e kiraam Radiallahu anhuma ki zindigiya dekhi ja sakti hai ki wo apne Walime ki dawat kis tarah aur kis andaz mein diya karte they aur kis tarah dawat ka aehtimam kiya karte they.
Nikah kya hai aur iska Aehtimam kis tarah hona chahiye, aur ise kis tarah Anjam dena chahiye. Aaj hum apne aapko dekhe agar hamara kareebi dost humein shadi mein na bulaye to shayd hum usse zindigi mein kabhi bat he na kare, usse qata talluq kar le.
Faqro Faqa Aur Tang Dasti ki Wajah Se Gamgeen Na Hon Is Liye Keh Jannat Me Aksariyet Fuqara Hi Ki Hogi Hazrat Imam Shafai Rahmatullahi Alaih Ka Irshad Girami Hai:*
*Waqt Talwar ki Manind Hai-Lihaza Iska Sahi Istimal Karo Warna ye Tumhen kat (Cut) Dalega -*
*Nabi E Kareem Sallahu Alahiwassalam Ne Irshad Farmaya: Jo Shaks Kisi Tang Dast Ke Liye Asaniyan Paida Karta Hai Allah Subhan Wa Ta'ala Dunya Wa Akhirat Me Is Ke Liye Asaniyan Paida Farmayega-*
Reference:-(Sahi Muslim 2699)
Aay Mery ALLAH hum sabko Wo Taqat Na Day Jiss Say hum Dosron Ko Kamzoor Karen hame Wo Dolat Na Day Jiss Ki Khatir hum Dosron Ko Gareeb Samjhen hame Wo ILM Na Day Jissy Main Apnay Seenay Main Chupa KAr Rakhe hame Wo Bulandi Na Day, Ke hame Pasti Main Kuch Nazar Na Ae hame Wo Sab Kuch Day Jo hum Dosron Main Baant Sakhen Aur Sab Ke Barabar Ho Jaen. Aameen summa Aameen
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WALIMA
Hazrat Abdurrahman Bin Aauf radiallaho anhu ka bayan he ki muzse Nabi-E-Kareem Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
"Walima karo chahe 1 hi Bakari Ho"
(Bukhari sharif, Jild 3, Safa 85)
Hazrat Safiya Binte Shaiba Radiallahu Anha farmati he ki
"Nabi Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne Apni baz Ajwaje Muthrat (Biwiya) ka walima 2 Ser Jav ke sath kiya tha"
(Bukhari sharif,Jild 3, Safa 87)
Hazrat Abdullah Bin Umar Radiallahu anhu se Riwayat he ki Rasoolallah Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
"Jab tum me se kisi ko walima khane ke liye bulaya jaye to wo Hazir ho jaye"
(Bukhari sharif, Jild 3, Safa 87)
Hazrat Abuhuraira Radiallaho anhu se riwayat he ke Huzoor Akram Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
"Jo dawat Qubool na kare usne Allah ta'ala wa Rasool ki Nafarmani ki"
(Bukhari sharif,Jild 3,Safa 88,Hadees no 163,Bab no 102)
Sarkare Madina Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
"Dawat Me Jao Jab Ke Bulaye Jao"
Aur Farmaya
"Jo bagair bulaye dawat me gaya wo chor ho kar ghusa aur gaaratgiri karke lutere ki soorat me bahar nikala"
(Abu dawood, Jild 3, Bab no 127, Hadees no 342, Safa 130)
Hazrat Abuhuraira Radiallaho anhu se Riwayat he ke Rasool-E-Khuda Sallalaho Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
"Subse bura walima ka wo khana he jisme Amiro ko bulaya jaye Aur Garibo ko nazar andaz kar diya Jaye"
(Bukhari sharif,Jild 3,Safa 88)
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*Acha kuch logo ke zehen mein ek sawal ye bhi AaTA hoga ki janaab hamare pas paisa hai hum ne kharch kar diya to kya gunah kiya. Mera un pyare bhaiyo se kuch sawalo ke jawab chahunga agar ye jawab mil chuke hain to phir aapko ikhtiyar hai ki aap apne paiso ko jaise chahe waise kharch kare…*
Aap kabhi kisi hospital ke bahar se ghuzre honge wahan par kuch ghareeb log apne lawaqeen ke ilaj ke liye doctors se iltija kar rahe honge ki mere paas paisa nahi hai ALLAH ke waste hamare bache ko ya bachi ko (ya kisi ko bhi) bacha lijiye. Agar is sawal ka jawab mil chuka hai to Beshaq aap apna paisa jaise chahe waise kharch kare.
Aapne aksar dekha hoga ki medical stores ke bahar line lagi hogi aur kuch logo ke pas dawa khareedne ke paisa nahi hote hain. Agar is sawal ka jawab mil chuka hai to Beshaq aapko ikhtiyar hai ki aap jis tarah chahe paisa kharch kare.
Aap kabhi raste se ghuzre honge aur apne dekha hoga ki kuch bache Koode (dustbin) mein se kuch uthakar kha rahe hote hain.ya kuch bator rahe hote hain agar iska jawab aapko mil gaya hai to phir aap Beshaq apne paise ko kahin bhi karch kar sakte hain.
Aaj Duniya ke aise aise ilaqe aur aise aise log maujood hain jahan par Islam ka namonishan nahi hai, agar un sabhi tak dawat pahunch chuki hai to phir aap apne paise ko apni marzi ke mutabiq kharch kar sakte hain.
Aapne dekha hoga aaj bhi Ulema sadko par ek thela aur speaker lekar masjid aur madarse ke chande ke liye nikalte hain kyun ki unke pas paisa nahi hai ki wo madarse aur masjid ko banwa sake. Masjido aur Madarse ke kharch ki zimmedari awaam ki hai, Agar is sawal ka jawab mil chuka hai to phir aap Beshaq jaise chahe waise kharch kare apna paisa.
Aap jante honge ki is sari duniya mein 256 mulk hain aur kahin par bhi shariyat nahi hai aur na he Islam ghalib hai, batil taqat ikatha kar raha hai Islam ko mitane ki aur hum uski madad kar rahe hain fizooliyat aur israf kar ke. Agar poori duniya par Khilafat ka nizam qayem ho gaya hai to Beshaq aap apni marzi se apne paise kharch kar sakte hain.
Agar Syria, Palestine, Chechaniya, Bosnia, Kashmir, Gujrat, Burma, Asaam, Mali, Afghanistanm ke hamare Musalman bhai aur behne achi zindigi ghuzarne lage hain, jaise hum ghuzar rahe hain to phir aap apne paise ko jaise chahe waise kharch kare.
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*بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
*الصلوة والسلام عليك يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم*
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Agar in tama'am sawalo ka jawaab mil gaya hai to Beshaq kharch kare jaise marzi ho waise, lekin agar in sabka jawab nahi mila hai to phir apko koi haq nahi ki aap ALLAH ki di hui daulat ka ghalat istemal kare aur use fizooliyat mein bahaye, huzoor SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM ki ek hadees ka mafhoom hai ki "wo shaqs momin nahi, ki wo khud pet bhar kar so jaye aur uska padosi bhooka rah jaye".
Kaise gawara karta hai humara dil ki hum fizool karch kare aur hamara he ek bhai, hamare he walidain jaise kisi ke walidain sirf isliye apne bache aur bachiyo ki shadi nahi karwa sakte ki Unke pas paisa nahi hai. mere azeezo DEEN to Asani paida karne ke liye Aaya tha naa ki mushkilat. Agar kisi ko koi bat buri lagi ho to main dil ki gehraiyo se muafi mangta hun lekin jo kuch aaj ho raha hai wo waqayi ek zulm aur sitam hai Islam par.
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*Shadi Biyah Aur Khushi Ke Mauqun Par Band Baje Aur Musiqi (Music) Ki Awaz .!*
*Nabi E Kareem Sallahu Alahiwassalam Ne Irshad Farmaya:-2 Awazen Par Dunya Aur Akhirat Me Lanat Ki Gayi Hai,,-*
*1, Khushi Wa Nimat Par Bansuri (Music Band Baje Wagaira ) Awaz*
*2, Aur Museebat(Gam Alam) Ke Waqt Cheekh Wa Pukar(Aur Nuha) Karne Ki Awaz-,*
Reference:-(Majma az Zawid 4017 Hadees E Hasn)
*SHADI ME LOGON KE KHUD BANAAYE HUE RASM O RIWAAJ*
Log In Rasm O Riwaaj Me Is Qadr Aage Badh Chuke Hain Ke Shadi Karne Wala Unke Bojh Ko Bar'daasht Karne Se Aajiz Aa Jaata Hai, Aur Shadi Ke Naam Se Nafrat Karne Lagta Hai,
Mahenge Kapde Banaane, Qeemti Zewaraat (Expensive Jewelery) Khareedne, Bed Room Ko Sajaane Wa Sawaarne, Dawaten Karne, Khaana Wa Ghosht Barbaad Karne Aur Dono Khaandaano Me Baraabar Aane Jaane Ke Silsilon Me Fuzool Kharchi Se Kaam Liya Jaata Hai,
Bechaare Shauhar Ki Kamar Ise Uthaate Uthaate Duhri Ho Jaati Hai, Ye Sab Kuch Shauhar Ke Liye Kisi Taur Par Faayede'mand Nahin Balke Iska Saara Faayeda Dukaan'daron Ki Jebon (Pockets) Me Jaata Hai,
Ye Tarah Uski Aamdani (Savings) Bina Maqsad Barbaad Ho Jaati Hai,
Balke Shadi Ki, Jo Logon Ki Zaroorat Hai Usme Rukawatein Daal Dete Hain,
Afsos Ke Kuch Bad'tahzeeb Aur Kam Aqal Logon Ne Musalmano Ko Bahut Si Buri Aadaton Me Daal Diya Hai Aur Kai Haram Kamon Ko Shadi Ke Zaroori Kaam Bana Diya Hai,
Hotels Aur Restourants Me Shadi Ki Mahfilein Sajaayi Jaati Hain, Shabbe Dari (Rat'jaga Jisme Ladke Ladkiyan Poori Raat Dance Karte Hain) Ka Program Kiya Jaata Hai, Music Par Dance Ka Program Hota Hai Jisme Be'pardagi Aam Hoti Hai Aur Bade Bade Gaane Walon Ko Bulaaya Jaata Hai,
Phir Tama'am Logon Ke Saamne Dulha Dulhan Ko Pesh Kiya Jaata Hai Aur Aksar Waqt Dulhan Behaya Auraton Ki Tarah Ban'sajh Kar Be'hijaab Hokar Baith Jaati Hai Aur Fir Najayez Tasweer Kashi Ka Amal Aur Photo Session Ka Marhala Shuru Ho Jaata Hai,
Aisi Shadi Haram Rasm O Riwaj Ki Wajah Se ALLAH Aur Uske Rasool Muhammad Sallalahu Alaihi Wa sallam Ki Mukhaalifat Aur Fasaad Wa Bigaad Ke Bhanwar Me Fans Jaati Hai,
Fir Aksar Shadi Ke Baad Shauhar Honey Moon Manaane Ke Liye Apni Biwi Ko Lekar Akhlaaqi Qaid Se Azaad Mulkon Aur Jagahon Ki Taraf Chal Padta Hai, Taake Wahan Jaakar Sharm O Haya Ki Chadar Utaar Kar Fenke, Fir Waapsi Par Aise Gande Aur Bure Afkaar Apne Dimagh Me Bhar Laate Hain Jo Mulk Wa Deen Dono Ke Liye Na'qabil Qubool Hoti Hai,
Ye Aise Ruswa Karne Waale Kaam Hote Hain Ke Unko Dekhkar Peshani Sharm Se Jhuk Jaaaye Aur Sharf Izzat Paani Paani Ho Jaaye, Lekin Murde Ko Nastar Chubhaane Ka Dard Kahan Hota Hai ?? !
Aiye ALLAH Ke Bandon ! Shadi Ke Raaste Me Aisi Rukaawatein Khadi Kar Dene Ke Bahut Zyadah Nuksanaat Hain,Duniya or Aakhirat ki barbadiyan hain, jaisa ke hum Agli post me bayan karenge insha ALLAH....
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1- Nikah Ki Taqat Na Rakhne Ki Wajah Se Nikah Me Kami Paida Ho Jaati Hai Aur Mard Aur Aurat Dono Gande Kaamon Me Padh Jaate Hain, Aur Samaji (Social) Bigaad Paida Ho Jaata Hai,
Kyonki Agar Jayez Kaam Me Rukaawat Ho Toh Na'jayez Kaam Ka Darwaaza Khul Jaata Hai, Har Cheez Jab Hadh Se Ghuzar Jaaye Toh Wah Apni Asal Haalat Ko Chhod Tabdeel Ho Jaati Hai,
2- Fir Hadh Se Zyada Fuzool Kharchi Ki Jaati Hai, Jo Qur'an Wa Sunnat Ki Roshni Me Haram Hai,
3- Wali (Guardian Ya Parents) Jab Apne Maat'hat Ke Liye, Munaasib Aur Nek Rishtey Mahaz Is Wajah Se Inkaar Kar De Ke Usse Is Qadr Haq Mahr Milne Ki Tawakkoh Nahin,
Ya Ye Ke Woh Shadi Ke Kharche Bardaast Karne Ke Qaabil Nahin Hai Toh Wah Uske Saath Dhoka Karte Hue Aise Shakhs Ka Intekhaab Karta Hai Jo Ye Sab Kharche Uthaane Ki Himmat Rakhta Hai,
Chaahe Uska Deen Aur Akhlaaq Kaisa Hi Kyun Na Hon, Ye Shakhs Apni Bahen Ya Beti Ki Khushi Ko Koi Ahmiyat Nhin Deta,
Agar Koi Shakhs Aise Kaamon Ka BaaR Baar Karne Ka Aadi (Habitual) Ho Toh Wah Shariat (Islam) Ki Nazar Me Nafarmaan, Deen Me Sifar (Zero) Aur Darja Adaalat Wa Sadaaqat Se Gir Jaata Hai,
Isliye Allah Ke Bandon ! ALLAH Ta'ala Se Darte Raho Aur Is Muaamle Ki Sangeeni Samjhte Hue Nikah Ko Munaasib Ahmiyat Do,
Allah Tala Ka Irshad Hai
" Aur Apne Me se Be'nikah Mardon Wa Auraton Ka Nikah Kardo Aur Apne Ghulamo Aur Laundion Se Jo Nek Hain Unka Bhi, Agar Wah Mohtaj (Ghareeb) Honge ALLAH Unhe Apne Fazal Se Ghani (Ameer) Kar Dega Aur Allah Wus'at Wala Aur Sab Kuch Jaanne Wala Hai"
(Surah Noor Ayat No 32)
*بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
*الصلوة والسلام عليك يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم*
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Ek ALLAH ki ibadat hai jinhe hum Huqooqullah kahte hain aur ek bando ke sath muamlat kare to wo bhi ibadat banti hai jise Huqooqul-Ibad kahte hain aur is Huqooqul Ibad ko ada karne mein aur poora karne mein sabse Ahem role Insan ke akhlaq ka hota hai.
Ek Bar huzoor sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ne farmaya ki Akhalq ki 360 qisme hain, jis kisi ko bhi iski ek bhi qism mil jaye ya uske andar aa jaye to jannat mein jayega,
to Hadhrat Abu bakr siddeeque RadiALLAHU Anhu Aap sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ke pas baithe they, Hadhrat Abu Bakr radiALLAHU Anhu ne pucha Ya Rasoolullah (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) mere andar kitni hain,
to Aap sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ne farmaya, ALLAH ne tumahre andar sari ki sari bhar di hain. Akhlaq ko takmeel tak Haya pahunchati hai. jiske andar haya nahi, sharam nahi uske andar ache akhlaq nahi.
Zindigi ache akhlaq se ghuzarti hai, na mal se, na gadiyo se, na heere jawarat se, na bangley se na bank balance se ye sari cheeze bhi ahemiyat rakhti hai lekin ye cheeze hasbe zaroorat hon to bhi koi fark nahi padta lekin agar ladke ya ladki ka bol meetha na ho,
uske akhlaq ache na ho to ye malo-daulat, gadi-bangle, heere-jawaharat aur bank balance ghar mein sukoon nahi la sakte,
zindigi usi ki behtar ghuzarti hai jiske akhlaq ache aur a'ala qism ke ho, use zabt karna ata ho, use sehna ata ho, use maaf karna aur darghuzar karna ata ho, use choti choti baton par wa-waaila se bachna ata ho,
ek dusre ki ghalti ko darghuzar karna aur achayi ko bayan karna ata ho. Har khushi har gham mein ek dusre ka sath na chhodna ata ho, ek dusre ki izzat karna ata ho. Ye sab baate Agar insaan me hon to aisa insaan hi Sabse bada daulat mand hai or usi ki duniya Or Aakhirat Qamyaab hoti hai
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Aajkal jab ghar mein bahu Aati hai to usse ek din ke ulat pher mein itna kuch expect kar liya jata hai ki wo jaise koi robot ho ki shadi se pehle programming alag thi aur shadi ke baad uski programming alag kar di gayi,
mere bhaiyo ek ladki tumhare ek ijabo qubool par apna sab kuch chhod kar Aati hai, apne maa-baap, apne bhai-bahen, apna ghar, apne rishtedar, uske liye sasural mein sab kuch naya hota hai, har kisi ko samjhna, shauhar ka nature kaisa hai, saas ka nature kaisa hai, sasurr ka nature kaisa hai, devaro aur devaraniyo ka nature kaisa hai ye sab kuch samjhne mein aur sab kuch adjust karne mein waqt lagta hai
lekin hum ye sochte hain ki wo hamare ghar aayi to use ab ekdum se change ho jana chahiye, mere bhaiyo abhi use apni maa ki yaad ayegi, abhi use apne walid ki yaad ayegi, apne bhaiyo aur behno ki yaad ayegi usne 20 se 25 sal apne ghar mein apne logo ke sath ghuzare hain jahan par mahol alag qism ka tha wo sabko samjhti thi aur yahan par alag qism ka mahol hai abhi samjhne mein waqt lagega.
Use thoda waqt do bas Aate he shuru na ho jao ki aisa na raho, waise na raho, ye na karo wo na karo, iski aisi khidmat karo uski waisi khidmat karo aur phir agar usse kuch ghalti ho jaye to uski baton ko, uski ghaltiyo ko sare aam sabse bayan karte phiro.
Kitni sharm ki baat hai ke koi hamare liye sab kuch chod ke AAYA ho or hum use khush naa rakhe to soche mere bhaiyon ke dil pe beetegi agar ye hi hamari bahen beti ke saath ho to kya hum ganwara karenge nahi kar sakte is liye hame bhi kisi ki beti kisi bahen ko khush rakhna hai tabhi hamari beti bahen khush rah paayeni
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*Apne bacho ki zindigiya kuch walidain khud ujadte hain,*
shauhar ki ma kahti hai bahu ko mutthi mein rakha kar, udhar ladki ki maa kehti hai apne shauhar ko Qaabu mein rakhna seekh, idhar se bhi kaan bhare jaate hain, udhar se bhi kaan bhare jaate hain, shadi se pehle walidain ko khabar bhi nahi hoti ki mera ladka kahan baitha hai, kahan gaya hai, lekin shadi ke bad agar wo apni biwi ke pas baith gaya to phir tanz chalte hain uske upar, Maa kahti hai, "Ab har waqt joru ke gote se he bandha rehta hai", Baap kahega "Paal pos kar itna bada kar diya aur ab jakar bahu se chipka hua hai"
behne kahengi ye lo bhabhi kya aa gyi hamari to qadr he nahi koi, koi poochta bhi nahi hai, bhai kuch kahenge aur koi kuch kahta hai koi kuch. ALLAH ke waste in tamam baton se aur cheezo se upar uth kar sochna seekhe, Ache akhlaq pesh karen, Ladke ko chahiye hai ki har kisi ke huqqoq achi tarah se ada kare,
walidain ko thoda sabr se kam lena chahiye, bhai aur behno ko bhi sabr se kam lena chahiye.Q ke jab Aise halaat Aajate or ladka fans kar rahjaata Naa wo biwi ko khush rakh pata naa maa baap ko or ladke zindagi sirf inhi sab uljhano me barbaad ho jaati
ALLAH TA'ALA HUM, SABKO HAMESHA EK DOOSRE KA DUKH DARD BANTNE OR KHUSH HAAL ZINDAGI GUZAARNE KI TAUFEEQ ATA FARMAYE AAMEEN SUMMA AAMEEN........
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*Har Maa chahti ki meri beti apne sasural mein khush rahe*
TO phir wo kisi aur ki beti ko wo khushi kyun nahi deti, kyun use ek beti ki tarah nahi samjhti, apni beti ki ghaltiya chupati hai aur bahu ki ghaltiya sare jahan mein batati hain, ye maao ki ghalat soch ka natija hai, ye DEEN se khali hone ki Alamat hai, ye ache akhlaq na hone ki alamat hai.
Aur zyadatar jagah mazloom ladki ya aurat he hoti hai kayi jagah mard aur sase zulm aur sitam ke pahad tod deti hai, jo bilawajah bahu ko satati hain, choti choti baton par datna, unhe zaleel karna aur unhe nicha dikhana. Kabhi ye kahna ki fridge nahi di, kabhi ye kahna ki cooler nahi diya, kabhi ye kahna ki fala cheez nahi di, kabhi ye kahna ki fala cheez nahi di, aur sabse badtar batein ye hoti hai jo bahu ke zehen mein baith jati hain wo ye ki
tere maa baap kuch diya bhi" "Tere amma abba ne kuch sikhaya bhi" is tarah ke saikdo jumle aise hote hain jo ek ladki ko teer ki tarah lagte hain, ye bhi sach hai Har jagah Shauhar aur saas ki bhi ghalti nahi hoti hai, kahin kahin bahu bhi zimmedar hoti hai, jahan par bahu ke bol kadwe ho, jahan par bahu akhlaq se khali ho, wahan par shauhar aur saas ka rehna mushkil hota hai,
wo apne shauhar ke kaan bharti hai ki mujhe maa ye kahti hain, mujhe devar ne aisa kaha, bahen ne aisa kaha, to shauhar apne ghar walo par ghussa karta hai, wo ghar mein Aakar khud ko maalkin samjhne lagti hai, har kisi ke upar huqum chalane ki sochti hai, har kisi se ye kahti phirti hai ki ye to mere shauhar ka hai, fala cheez mere shauhar ki hai, fala cheez mere shauhar ki hai, tumhara hai he kya, aise khatarnak jumlo se ek ladki ko parhez karna chahiye,
ye wo jumle hai jo bhai bhai mein ladayi kara dete hain, bhai bahen mein ladayi karwa dete hain, maa bete aur baap bete mein ladayi karwa dete hain choonki ghar mein hukm Shauhar ka chalta hai isliye zyadatar mazloom ladki he hoti hai aur ye kaafi dekha bhi gaya hai.
Aise muaamlo me Agar Shauhar ne na sambhala Apni biwi or Apne ghar waalo ko to bohat si takleefo ka saamna karna padhta or poora bikhar ke rahjaata hai Agar shauhar ne dheel de di to ghar ki tabaahi ka raasta yahin se khul jaata hai ......
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Hum Apne tama'am sunni bhai baheno se guzaarish karte hain ke Apni Ekhlakh ko khoobsoorat banaye or hamesha sabr or shukr karte rahen Agar Apne ghar waalo ko bhi khush rakhe Apni biwi ka bhi khayal rakhe Q ke ye Aapke liye Apne maa baap or bhai bahen dost rishtedaro ko chod Aayi hai
or hamesha ye yaad rakhe hum ye nahi kahte ke sab Aise hote par bohat se Aise ghar dekhe hum,ne jahan maa baap or ghar waalo ki hi galtiya hoti or kayi jagha biwiyon ki par in sab ka daaromadaar shauhar pe hota hai Wo chaahe to To in sab ka hal nikaal sakta hai bas uske liye ghar ka mahaul Accha or islaami karna hoga or deen ko Apni zindagi me poori tarah se laana hoga Q ke deen e islaam or Hamare Aaqa sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ki mubarak zindagi or hamare RAB TA'ALA ke hiqumo par Amal karte hue hi hum kaamyaab zindagi guzaar sakte hain jo hame duniya me bhi or Aakhirat me bhi Kamyaabi Ata karegi insha ALLAH
Alhamdulillah hum mazhab e islaam me paida hue hain,jo hame .paida hone se le kar maut Aane tak or subha uthne se le kar raat ko sone tak ke jo bhi Arkaan or Ahkaam hote hain jo hum,Roz Apni zindagi me karte hain,Alhamdulillah is deen e islaam ne hame muQammal tareeqa. farham kiya or diya hai
OR hamare Aaqa Alaihissalatu wassalam
ki mubarak zindagi or sahaba e kiraam RadiALLAHU ANHUMA ki zindagiya or hamare buzurgaane deen ki mubarak zindagiyan ko dekh ke sabak hansil karna chayye ke or Agar hum,ne nahi. Padha hai to Ab se padhna shuru karden insha ALLAH zindagiya khushganwaar ho jayengi or duniya or Aakhirat bhi sanwar jayegi insha ALLAH
ALLAH TA'ALA HUM SABKO SABR OR SHUKR KE SAATH. OR APNI RAZA OR SUNNAT E MUSTAFA SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM PAR ZINDAGI GUZAARNE KI TAUFEEQ ATA FARMAYE AAMEEN SUMMA AAMEEN.........
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*🌹 BEHTAREEN SHAOHAR KAUN ? 1. ♥
[1] 》Jo Apni Biwi ki Musibaton Bimariyon Aur Ranj o Gam me Dil Joi Timardari aur Wafadari ka saboot de
[2] 》Jo Apni Biwi ki khubiyo per Nazar rakhe aur mamuli galatiyon ko nazar andaz kare
[3] 》Jo Apni Biwi ki Tand Mizaji aur Bad Akhlaqi per sabr kare
[4] 》Jo Apni Biwi per kabhi Zulm aur kisi Qism ki be ja zyadati na kare
[5] 》Jo Apni Biwi ko Apne Aish o ishrat me bara br samjhe
[6] 》Jo Apni Biwi ka is tarah ho kar rahe k kisi Ajnabi Aurat per Nigah na dale
[7] 》Jo Apni Biwi ke Huqooq Ada karne me kisi Qism ki Gaflat aur kotahi na kare
[8] 》Jo Apni Biwi ke sath Narmi, khush Akhlaqi aur husne sulook k sath paish aaye
[9] 》Jo Apni Biwi ko Zillat o Ruswai se Bachaye rakhe
[10] 》Jo Apni Biwi ko Deendari ki takeed karta Rahe Aur Shari’at ki raah per chalaye
[11] 》Jo Apni Biwi k Akhrajaat me Bakhili Aur Kanjoosi na kare
[12] 》Jo Apni Biwi per is tarah control rakhe k wo kisi Burai ki taraf Rukh Bhi na kar sake.”
❤❤❤SUBHAN ALLAH ❤❤❤
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*🌹BIWI KO SHAUHAR (HUSBAND) KE SAATH ZINDAGI BASAR KARNE KA MUKHTASAR TAREEQA 🌹*
Miyaa biwi ka rishta ek aisa mazboot ta’luq hai ke saari umar is bandhan me rahkar zindagi basar karni hai. Agar miyaa biwi me poora poora itehaad aur milaap raha to usse badh ker koi ne’mat nahi. Aur Khuda na kare miyaa biwi ke darmiyaan ikhtelaaf paida ho gayaa aur jhagde takraari ki naubat aagayi to is se badh kar koi museebat nahi ke miyaa biwi dono ki zindagi jahannum ka namoona ban jaati hai, aur dono umar bhar ghutan aur jalan ki aag me jalte rehte hai. Neeche chand baate darj ki jaati hai ke agar mard wa aurat un par amal karne lage to In’shaa ALLAH, miyaa biwi ke jhagde se mu’ashra paak ho jaayega aur musalmaano ka ghar aman wa sukoon ka gehwara aur aaraam wa rahat ki jannat ban jaayega.
(1) 》Har aurat ko chahiye ke shauhar ke ghar me qadam rakhte hi apne upar yeh laazim karle ke woh har waqt aur har haal me apne shauhar ka dil apne haath me liye rahe aur uske ishaaron par chalti rahe.
(2) 》Har aurat ko chahiye ke apne shauhar ke mizaaj ko pehchaan le, aur bagaur dekhti rahe ke uske shauhar ko kya kya cheeze aur kaun kaun si baate naa pasandidah hai, aur woh kin kin baato se khush hota hai aur kin kin baaton se naaraaz hota hai. Yaani aurat par laazim hai ke woh har kaam shauhar ke mizaaj ke mutaabiq kare khwah shauhar ka tarz-e-amal sahih ho ya galat aurat ko pasand ho ya naa pasand.
(3) 》Aurat ko laazim hai ke shauhar ko kabhi jali kati na sunaaye na kabhi uske samne ghusse me chilla chilla kar bole na uski baaton ka kadwa tikha jawaab de na kabhi usko taa’na maare, na uski laayi hui cheezon me aib nikaale, na shauhar ke makaan wa samman wagairah ko haqeer bataaye, na shauhar ke maa baap ya uske khaandaan ya uski shakal wa soorat ke baare me koi aisi baat kahe jis se shauhar ke dil ko thes lage aur khwama khwa isko bura lage. Is qism ki baaton se shauhar ka dil dukh jaata hai, aur rafta rafta shauhar ko biwi se nafrat hone lagti hai jis ka anjaam jhagde ladaai ke siwa kuch bhi nahi hota. (4) Aurat ko chahiye ke shauhar ki aamdani ke haisiyat se ziyaada kharch na maange, balke jo kuch mile us par sabr wa shukr ke saath apna ghar samajh kar hansi khushi ke saath zindagi basar kare. Agar koi zevar ya kapda, saamaan pasand aajaye aur shauhar ki maali haalat aisi nahi hai ke woh isko laasake to kabhi hargiz hargiz uski farmaish na kare aur apni pasand ki cheeze na milne par kabhi hargiz koi shikwa shikaayat na kare na ghusse se moonh fulaye na taa’na maare na afsos zaahir kare, balke behtareen tareeqa yeh hai ke aurat shauhar se kisi cheez ki farmaish na kare kyun ke baar baar farmaishon se aurat ka wazan shauhar ki nigah me ghat jaata hai, haan jab shauhar khud hi pooche to uski maali haisiyat ke mutaabiq apni pasand ki cheez talab kare, aur jab shauhar koi cheez laye to woh pasand aaye ya na aaye magar aurat ko hamesha yahi chahiye ke woh us par khushi ka izhaar kare aisa karne se shauhar ka dil badh jaayega.
(5) 》Aurat ko laazim hai ke apne shauhar ki soorat aur seerat par taa’na na maare. na kabhi shauhar ki tahqeer aur uski naashukri kare.
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*ZINA KE AAM HONE KI ASAL WAJAH SHADI MEIN TAKHEER HAI…*
Waise to aaj ke mahaul mein zina jaisi ghaleez harkat e aam hone ke beshumar wujuhat hain, ek wajah ye hai ki Aaj kal jo long term study ki planning chal rahi hai, ek wajah ye hai ki beshumar gandagi Television (Yahoodi) ke zariye jo gharo mein ghus rahi hai, Ek wajah mobile phone bhi hain, ek wajah ladke aur ladkiyo ka school, colleges aur university mein ek sath padhna bhi hai, ek sath coaching aur tution classes padhna bhi hain,
Aaj kal jo dresses chal gaye hain ye bhi ek wajah hai aur in sabse badhkar ye ki Nikah bht zyada he der se hone lage hain, kyun ki har kisi ko Angrezo aur yahoodiyo ne ek nara diya hua hai ki pehle padhayi kar lo shadi ke liye abhi bht umar padi hai aur isi nare ki wajah se Aksar ladke 30 cross kar jate hain jabki balooghat ghaliban 14 se 16 sal ke bad se he shuru ho jati hai,
yahi haal ladkiyo ke ziman mein bhi hai, maghribi tehzeeb aur tamaddun aur unke Ummat ko behkane wale nare KHAWATEEN KI AZADI ke nam par aaj maa baap ladkiyo ko bhi 30 – 30 sal tak padhane ke liye baithaye rehte hain aur unki shadi nahi karte hain.
aur jab umar nikal jati hai tab shadi karne ka hosh ata hai phir rishte samjh mein nahi atey ya to phir age mein difference bht zyada milta hai, ya koi shadi shuda milta hai lihaza yahi wajah banti hai ki ladke aur ladkiya bf gf banakar apni nafsani khwahishat ko najayaz tareeke se poora karte hain.
Yad rakhe wo walidain ki jo apne bacho ki shadi mein takheer karte hain aur is takheer ki wajah se agar inke bache aur bachiya kisi ghaleez harkat ko anjam dete hain to inhe bhi utna he gunah milega jitna inke bache aur bachiyo ko milega. Is mauzoo par bolne ke liye aur kehne ke liye bht kuch hai lekin bs isharatan maine chand batein pesh ki hain, aur tamam dost aur ahbab is mazmoon ko samajh gaye honge.
Abhi kuch din pehle. facebook par ek dost ne ek photo tag kiya tha jisme kuch ladkiya hijab mein kisi park mein apne bf ke sath baithi hui thi lihaza meri un Ahbab se ghuzarish hai ki is tarah ke photo upload na kare balki jo karne wala kam hai wo kare. Nikah ko Asan kare aur ZINA ka kam tama'am kare.
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*NIKAH KO AAM KARO AUR JALDI KARO, ZINA KO KHATM KARO AUR ISLAM KO SAR BULAND KARO.*
Sawal : Zina Kya Hai..?
Jawab : Agar Mard Ek Aesi Aurat Se Sohbat Humbistari/ Physical Relation/ intercourse. Kare jo uski biwi nahi hai, to ye zina kehlata hai, zaurui nahi ki saath sone ko hi zina kahte hain, balki chhuna bhi zina ka ek hissa hai aur kisi parai aurat ko dekhna aankho ka zina hai.
Apni Nigaho ka khayal rakhkhe Mere Pyare Islami bhaiyon apne nigaho ki hifazat kiya karo, jab bhi Road Pe chalo to apni nigah nichhi kar ke chalo Ye hamare Pyare Aaqa Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ki Sunnat Hai main aksar dekha jata hai ki bahut se log chowk par baith jate hai aur har Aane jane wali be parda awrato ko dekhte hai, ye bahut badi galti hai hamari, iska bahut sakht azab hai ek nazar maaf hai lekin iska matlab ye nahi ki jab tak aapki palke Na jhapke Tab tak aap dekhte hi raho ?, aap iska hamesha khayal rakkhe aapki zindagi ke liye behetar hoga, apna iman banay rakhkhe,
Hazrat Jarir (Radi Allahu Anhu) ne Hazrat MUHAMMAD (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) Se Pucha Ki Ghair Mahram (Parai AURAT) Par Achanak Nazar Chali Jaaye to kya kare? Is par Hazrat MUHAMMAD (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) Ne Farmaya Ki, “Tu Apni Nazar Pher Le”. �� Sunan Abu Dawud, Dosto, is gunah mein bahut aadmi shaamil hain, aur bahut se logo ko ab to iski itni aadat ho gai hai ki unko pata bhi nahi chalta ki unhone kab gunah kar diya, isliye apni nigaho ki hifazat kare aur gunaho se bache, thodi der ko sochiye, ladki aapke pass se nikli aur aapne usko ghoor-ghoor kar dekh liya, ladki chali gai, aap bhi us baat ko bhool gaye, sab kuch khatam ho gaya, lekin aapne ye nahi socha ki gunah bacha rah gaya. Allah humko apni nigaho ki hifazat karne wala bana de. Aameen.
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Zina ko islam mein ek bohatt bada gunah maana gaya hai, aur islam ne Aisa karne walo ki duniya mein bhi saza rakhi hai aur marne ke baad ALLAH iski sakht saza dega. Zina ke baare mein Kuch Hadees aur quran ki ayat mulaihiza farmayye
Hazrat Muhammad (Sallallahu Alaihi Wa sallam) Ne Farmaya Momin (muslim) Hote Hue To Koi Zina Kar Hi Nahi Sakta”
(Bukhari Sharif, Jild:3, Safa:614 Hadees:1714)
ALLAH TA'ALA Qura'an Me Faramata Hai “Aur (Dekho) Zina Ke Paas Bhi Na jaana, Beshak Wo Behayai Hai Aur Buri Raah Hai”.
(Al-quraan : Al-Isra: A-32)
Zina Ki Sazaa Aur Azaab :
Agar Zina Karnewale Shadi Shuda Ho To Khule Maidan Me patthar maar- maar kar Maar Daala Jaye Aur agar Kuwara Ho To 100 Kode Maare Jaye.
(Bukhari Sharif Jild Safa:615/615 Hadees:1715)
Aaj kal dekhne mein aya hai ki is gunah mein bahut se log shaamil hain, chahe ladka ho ya ladki. Aur phir is gunah ko karne ke baad apne dosto ko badi shaan se sunate hain, balki unko bhi Aisa karne ki raay dete hain.
Dosto agar kuwara Aisa kar raha hai to jaldi se shaadi kar len taaki is gunah se bach jaaye aur shadi shuda Aisa kar rahe hain to chahe wo ek nikah aur kar len lekin is gunah se bachen. Agar koi kuwara ladka ya ladki koi galat kaam karta hai to iska gunah uske maa-baap ko bhi milta hai kyonki unhone unki jaldi shaadi nahi ki jiski wajah se wo galat kaam karne lage.
Aur ek jagah ALLAH TA'ALA ne Qura'an mein farmaya ki paak daaman ladkiya, paak daaman ladko ke liye hain, iska matlab ye hai ki agar aap acche hain to Allah Aapko bhi acchi biwi ya Shauhar dega aur kharab hain to samajh lijiye?….
Insan jo bhi galat kaam karta hai uski keemat uske baccho, ma ya bahan ko is duniya mein hi chukana padti hai. Imam Shaafai Rahmatullah Alaihi farmate hain ke: “Zina ek Qarz Hai, Agar Tu Ye Qarz Lega To Tere Ghar Se Yaani Teri Behan, Bahu, Beti Se Wasul Kiya Jaayega”…
ALLAHU AKBAR Dosto, is bade guna ki aur bhi sazayen hain, isliye khud bhi bacho aur apne dosto ko bhi bachao, agar aapne Apne Zina kaari ka kissa apne dost/ saheli ko sunaye aur uske dil mein bhi Aesa karne ki baat aa gai aur usne wo kaam kar liya to uska gunah aapko bhi milega, kyonki Aapne hi usko galat raasata dikhaya hai.
Aur Aapke dost Aage bhi jitne logo ko galat raasta dikhayega un sabka gunah bhi aapke account mein Aayega. Allah hum sabko is kabeera gunah se bachaye. “Aameen”
*“ASTAG-FIRULLAHA RABBI MIN-KULLI ZANBIUN WATUBOO ILAEHI”*
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*بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
*الصلوة والسلام عليك يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم*
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ALLAH TA'ALA hum sabko kahne sunne se zyada Amal ki taufeeq ata farmaye AAMEEN..
AYE ALLAH hum sabko sahi ilm e deen hansil karne or uspe Amal karne or use doosro tak pohanchane ki taufeeq ata farma or hum sabko kabeera sageera gunaaho se bachne ki taufeeq ata farma
AYE ALLAH HUM sabko sunnat e NIKAH ko ba'shariyat sunnato ke mutabik sacchi niyat ke saath Ada karne ki taufeeq Ata farma or hum sabko apni zindagiyo me deen e islam ki ta'alimaat hansil karne or us par haq ke eaaste par zindagi guzaarne ki taufeeq Ata farma
or hame Apni zindagi teri RAZA or ishq e mustafa sallallahu alaihi wa sallam par guzaarne ki taufeeq Ata farma
AYE ALLAH hum sabko duniya or Aakhirat ki Qamyaabiya ata farma or jab tak zinda rakh Emaan or islaam pe zinda rakh or khatma hamara Ba'Eman Ata farma
AYE ALLAH TUJHE TERE MAHBOOB MUHAMMAD MUSTAFA SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM KA WASTA HAMARE AAQA ALAIHISSALATU WASSALAM KE WASEELE OR SADQE TUFAIL HUM,SABKI TAMA'AM NEK JAYAZ MURAADO KO OR DUAON KO QABOOL FARMA
OR TERI RAZA OR TERE MAHBOOB MUHAMMAD MUSTAFA SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM KI PYARI SUNNATO PE SABR OR SHUKR KE SATH APNI ZINDAGI GUZAARNE KI TAUFEEQ ATA FARMA .....
آمین یا رب العالمين والصلاة والسلام على أشرف الأنبياء والمرسلين صلى الله عليه وسلم