Monday, 28 August 2017

EK SOCH EK FIQR APNI ZINDAGI KO KAMYAB BANANE KI TOPIC NIKAH Part 3

**AS SALAMU ALAIKUM WA RAHMATULLAHI WA BARAKATAHU 》EK SOCH EK FIQR APNI ZINDAGI KO KAMYAB BANANE KI Part 3 topic Qamyaab NIKAH *



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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
*الصلوة والسلام عليك يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم*
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POST (16)
*NIKAH KARNE KE BE'SHUMAR FAYEDE HOTE HAI AAYYE MUKHTASAR SI NAZAR DAALTE HAIN*

Nikah k bohat saare fawaid hai yaha kuch ka zikr iqtesaran kiya jaata hai,

1. Nikah karne se insaan nazro ki hifazat, paak damani aur gunaho se bohat had tak mahfooz hojata hai

2. Nikah karne se HUZOOR SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM Ki ek azeem o pyaari sunnat ada hoti hai

3. Neik aulad duniya aur AakhiraT dono me kaam Aayegi

4. Nikah ke zariye jo Aulad hogi in ki achhi tarbiyat karke deen o millat ke istehkaam ke liye inka istemaal kar sakta hai

5. Aulad ki wajah se HUZOOR SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM ki seerate taiyyiba ke is hisse per amal ka mouqa mil sakta hai jis ka taalluq aulad se hai

6. ALLAH Azzawajal aur uske pyaare HABIB SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM ke wo Ahkaam wa farmudaat jin ka talluq aulad se hai, aulad ki wajah se in ahkaam wa farmudaat per amal ka zariye mouqa milta hai

7. Insaan jab budha hojata hai aise mouqe per aulad sahara banti hai

8. Bachho ki kafalat ki zimmedari ke sabab insan ke dil me zyada se zyada kamane aur mahnet karne ka jazba paida hota hai

9. Aulad ki wajah se insan muashre me alag thalag nahi rahta balke isko izzath ki nigah se dekha jaata hai

10. Agar aulad daras gahe sunni me fout hojaye to maa baap ki shafaat karegi

11. Neik biwi insan ki zindagi k tamaam
muaamlaat me rafeeq hoti hai, moharam raaz hoti hai, gham ghusar hoti hai

12. Zahni aur jismani khurb jis qadr insan ko apni biwi se hota hai kisi aur se nahi
hota.

(Sharhey Sahih Muslim Summary by Allama Gulam Rasool Sa’eedi)

13. Nikah ke fawaid me ye bhi hai ke waldain ko aulad ki parwarish shafqat uthana padhti hai aur ye baat ajr-e azeem hai, Hazrat abdullah bin mubarak Radhiallahu tahla anhu ek din jihad me
shareek the to us halat me apne sathiyon se farmaya, ke tum jante ho ke koi aisa bhi amal hai jo hamare is jihad wale amal se bhi fauqeeyat rakhta ho aur baaise ajr ho,

Doston ne arz ki huzoor baayan farmaye, Tab aap ne farmaya ,wo jihad se afazal amal ye hai ke kisi musalman ke
bachche ho,un bachchon ko raat sote me kapdhe utar jata hai to baap meethi neend chhodh kar un bachchon ko sanbhal ta hai,unko kapdhe se dhanpta
hai aur ye amal is jihad wale amal se afazl hai.

                    (subhan ALLAH)

14. HUZOOR SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM ne irshad farmaya, ALLAH pak
jannat me kisi momin bande ke darje buLand karta hai to wo banda arz karta hai,ya ALLAH pak ye mere darje kis wajah se buland kiye gaye hai? ALLAH pak farmata hai ,aye bande tere bete tere liye duwa aur isal sawab kiya hai us wajah se tere darje buland kiye gaye hai. Isse maloom huwa ke insan ek nek aulad chhodh jaye to ye bahut bada ina’am hai aur ye se nikah ke samrat me se qahai.

15. Hazrat umar Radhiallahu tahla anhu ka qaul hai imaan ke bad nek aurat se bahtar koi nemat nahi hai.

16. Nikah ke fawaid me se ye bhi hai ke shaadi ke baad agar insan badkari aur bad nigahi se bachna chahe to ba Aasani bach sakta hai- Hazrat abdullah bin masood Radhiallahu tahla anhj se riwayat hai ke HUZOOR SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM ka irshad hai, aye najawano jo koi tum me se nikah karne ki taqat rakhta hai to use chahiye ke wo shaadi kare kyu ke shaadi karne se bad nigahi aur bad kari se bach jaata hai,agar kisi ko nikah ki taqat na ho to wo roze rakhe kyu ke roze bachao ka zaria hai.

17. khuwaja abu talib kitab (quwwatul quloob ) me naqal karte hai ke jab aurat
ke saath uska shauhar khelta hai usko muhabbat karta hai to usko itni nekiyan milti hai jitni ALLAH ko manzoor hai, Aur jab dono gusl karte hai to ALLAH pak paani ke har qatre se ek farishta paida karta hai jo qiyamat tak ALLAH pak ki tasbeeh bayan karta hai aur us tasbeeh ka sawab dono khawind beevi ko ata karta hai.      (Subhan ALLAH)

Baraye Karam Is Paigham Ko Dusro ko Share kijiye ALLAH Apko iska Ajar-e-Azeem Zaroor dega AAMEEN

             🌹►jazakALLAH khairan🌹
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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
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POST (17)
*🌹AAYYE MERE SUNNI BHAI BAHENO AB NIKAH KI FAZEELAT OR AHMIYAT KO JAANTE OR SAMAJHTE HAIN🌹*

🌹NIKAH DEEN E ISLAM🌹
mein sirf ek rasm o riwaaj nahi hai balki hamare liye ye ek Ibadat hai, Neki ke husool ka zariya hai, Emaan ki takmeel ka ba'ais hai aur Nabi SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM ki SUNNAT hai. Ye ibadat isliye hai ki iski talqeen ki gayi hai, ye neiki ke husool ka zariya isliye ki ise sadqa qarar diya gaya hai, shauhar aur biwi jab jayez tareeke aur jayez tarah se apni khwahisho ki takmeel karte hain to Hadees mein aya hai ki ye bhi Sadqa hai, ajro sawab ka zariya hai, aur ye sunnat isliye hai ki isko
🌹Nabi e kareem SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM ne khud bhi farmaya hai.🌹

Kal jo tareeka Nikah ka hamare Aaqa sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ne humein bataya tha aaj is western, modern, ghaleez aur gande mahaul mein wo kahin kho sa gaya hai, har kisi ko ye to yad rehta hai ki ye sunnat hai aur isse Emaan muQammal hota hai lekin ye kisi ko yaad nahi ki is sunnat ka tareeka kya hai, Iman ko mukammal kis tarz par kiya jaye aur kis tarah kiya jaye.

Nabi e kareem SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM ne ye bataya ki Nikah ibadat bhi hai, NIkah neiki ke husool ka zariya bhi hai aur Emaan ki takmeel ka zariya bhi hai, 3 - 3 cheeze ek sath sirf ek amal mein, ek sunnat ko pura karne par hai aur har shadi karne wale musalman ko milti hai lihaza ye koi choti bat ya chota amal to hua nahi,ye sunnat e RASOOL SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM hai ALLAH aur Uske Habib Muhammad mustafa sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ne har ahkam aur sunnat ko ada karne ka tareeka bhi bataya aur uske liye kuch hidayat bhi di hain, lekin aaj hamare maashre ki badqismati ye hai ki is sunnat par amal karna to sabhi ko yad raha lekin jis tarah Nikah karne ko aur uska tareeka

Nabi e kareem SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM ne bataya tha wo yad nahi raha. Aaj Nikah aur shadi ke naam par jo rasoomat ma'ashre mein rayej hain wo har tarah se gandigi, gunaho aur ghalazat ko dawat dene wali hain.
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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
*الصلوة والسلام عليك يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم*
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POST (18)
*NIKAH SE MUTALLIQ CHAND HIDAYAT JO NABI SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM NE FARMAYIN…*

Hazrat Abu huraira wa Hazrat Jaabir Radhiallahu ta'ala anhum se Riwayat Hai Ke HUZOOR sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ne irshad farmaya: "Aurat se 4 chizo ki wajahse nikah kiya jata hai..

1. Uska Maal
2. Husn wa Jamal
3. Uska Khandan
4. Uske Deendar hone ki wajah se. Lekin tu Deendar Aurat Ko Hasil Kar"

📚(Bukhari shareef Jild 3, Safa 59, Tirmizi shareef, Jild 1, Safa 555)

HUZOOR sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ne irshad farmaya:  "Aurato se unke Husn ke sabab shaadi na karo ho sakta hai uska Husn tumhe Tabah kar de, na uske Maal ki wajah se shaadi karo ho sakta hai ke unka Maal tumhe gunaho me Mubtela kar de,Balki Deen ki wajah se nikah kiya karo, Kali,Chapti,Bad -surat Londi agar Deendar ho to Behtar hai"

📚(Ibne maja, Jild 1, Hadees no 1926, Safa 522)

Mafhoom ye hai ki log jab rishta lagane ki sochte hain to khoobsurti ko dekhte hain, hasab aur nasab ko dekhte hain, maal dekhte hain aur phir seerat, kirdar deendari dekhte hain lekin tum seerat, kirdar aur DEENDARI ko tarjeeh dena.

Aam taur par dekha jata hai ki sabse pehle log khoobsurti ko tarjeeh dete hain, phir khandan ko aur phir paise ko.Agar dekha jaye to ye teeno cheeze Abu Laheb mein bhi maujood thi, behad khoobsurat, uncha khandan aur maal bhi tha lekin ALLAH ne quran mein baddua kar di aur iske liye farma diya "TABBAT YADA ABI LAHBIYUN WATABB", iske barakas dekhe Hadhrat Bilal RadiALLAHU Anhu. na khoobsurat hain, na maal hai aur na he uncha khandan lekin ALLAH ke nazdeeq maqam kya hai RADHIALLAHU ANHU, ki sari ummat inke nam ke agey RADHIALLAHU ANHU lagati hai ki ALLAH Unse Raazi ho gaya. Ye ALLAH ke nazdeeq sirf Taqwa ikhtiyaar karne wale ko uncha Muqaam milta hai, na he maal wale ko, na khoobsoorat ko aur na he unche khandan wale ko

isliye Aaqa Alaihissalatu wassalaam ne hidayat di ki tum DEENDARI ko har cheez par tarjeeh diya karo, aur riwayat mein hai ki agar acha DEENDAR, SEERAT aur KIRDAR ka rishta mil jaye aur tum usse inkar kar do to zameen mein fasad paida ho jata hai.....ALLAHU AKBAR

*🌹NIKAH KAHA KARNA CHAHIYE🌹*

Ummul momineen Hazrat Ayesha siddiqa Radhiallahu tahla Anha Hazrat Anas Bin Malik, Hazrat Abdullah ibne umar Radhiallahu ta'ala anhum se riwayat hai ke HUZOOR sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ne irshad farmaya: "Apne Nutfe (Shaadi ke liye) Achchi jagah talash karo. apni Biradri me Byaah ho, aur Biradri se byaah karlo ki Aurate Apne hi Kunbe ke Mushaba (Milte hue Bachche) Janti hai"

📚(Ibne Maja Jild 1, Hadees no 2038, Safa 549, Bayhaqi Shareef wa Haaqim)

Hazrat imam Bukhari Radhiallahu ta'ala anhu Riwayat karte hai ki "Aur Must'hab (Behtar) Hai ke apni Nasl ke liye Behtar Aurat chune Lekin ye Wajib nahi"

📚(Bukhari sharif Jild 3, Bab no 41, Safa 56)
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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
*الصلوة والسلام عليك يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم*
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POST NO. (19)
*🌹AAYYE MERE SUNNI BHAI BAHENO AB JAANTE HAIN NIKAH KA PAHLA (STEP 1 ) HAMARA KYA HONA CHAYYE 🌹*

Hamara sabse pahla kadam Acche rishte Ka intekhaab or talaash karna hai or sunni sahi ul Aqeeda maslak e Aala hazrat ke maanne waalo Me hi rishta talaash karna hai

 hamari kuch muslim bahene Aisi bhi hoti jo duniya ki Aish o Aaraam ke liye badmazhabon se shadi kar leti ya is liye bhi kar leti hain kyounki inko sunni me paise wala achha ladka or bade ghar wala nahi milta (maazAllah) Aur jo Ladkiya paise aur Achhe ghar ke liye badmazhabon se shaadi kar leti hain  Unke paas is hadees e paak ka kya jawab hai 👇👇👇👇👇👇👇

Hazrat Sahal Radiallah Anhu bayan karte hain ke Nabi e kareem Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ki khidmat me ek aurat hazir hui aur us ne arz kia ya Rasool Allah ﷺ mai isliye hazir hui hun ki apni zaat Aap Sallallahu alahi wasallam ko hiba kar du

Nabi e kareem Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ne use dekha aur poori tarah se neeche se uper tak jaiza liya fir aap ne apna sir e mubarak jhuka liya Jab us aurat ne dekha ke Aap Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ne us ke bare me koi faisla nahi farmaya to ek taraf ho kar baith gaye Fir Sahaba e kiraam Radiallahu anhuma me se ek sahabi uthe unhone arz kiya : Ya Rasool-Allah Sallallahu alahi wa sallam, agar Aap ko is ki zaroorat na ho to is ka nikah mere sath kar dijiye

Aap Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ne pucha :
Tumhare paas (mehar dene k liye) kuch hai? Unhone ne arz kiya : Allah ki qasam ya Rasoollallah, mere paas kuch nahi hai Aap Sallallahu alahi wasallam ne farmaya : Apne ghar jaa kar dekho kya koi cheez dastyab ho sakti hai ? Wo ghar gaye aur wapas Aa kar arz kiya : Allah ki qasam ya Rasool Allah ﷺ mujhe ghar me bhi koi cheez nahi mili Aap Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ne farmaya : talash karo aur dekho khwah lohe ki anguthi hi mil jaye Chunanche wo fir ghar gaye aur wapas aa kar kahne lage : ya Rasool Allah ﷺ Allah ki Qasam lohe ki Anguthi bhi nahi hai albatta ye mera zere jama (tehbnd) zaroor hai  Hazrat Sahal Radiallah  anhu ne kaha ke un ke paas chadar bhi na thi  Un sahabi ne kaha : Main is (tehband) me se aadha bataure mehar dene ko tayyar hun

Is par Aap Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ne farmaya : wo tumhare tehband ko le kar kya karegi kyun k ise to agar tum pahnoge to is aurat par kuch na hoga aur agar ise pahnne doge to tum par kuch na hoga 》Is ke baad wo shakhs baith gaye aur kafi der baithe rahe fir uthe (aur jaane lage)
Jab Rasoollallah Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ne unhe peeth mod kar jaate dekha to Aap Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ne unhe bulwaya Jab wo aa gaye to

Aap Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ne farmaya : tumhe Qura'an me se kuch yaad hai? Unhone arz kiya : k muje falan falan sooratein yaad h  Us ne gin kar sooraton ke naam bataye Aap Sallallahu alahi wa sallam ne pucha : kya tum in sooraton ko zubani apne hafize ki madad se padh sakte ho ? Us ne arz kiya : Haa, Aap Sallallahu alahi wasallam ne farmaya : accha ise le jao yeh main ne tumhare qabze me di (yaani ise tumhare nikah me diya) Us Qur'an ke Aewaz jo tumhe yaad hai (yaani itna Qur'an ise seekha dena)
(SAHIH BUKHARI KITAB FAZAIELUL QUR'AN BAAB 22)

*Hum ummid karte hain ke baat samjh me aagai hogi Aap sabko*
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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
*الصلوة والسلام عليك يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم*
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POST NO. (20)
Mere sunni bhai baheno Ek bohat Ahem mas'ala Nikah or emaan ke ta'aluk se ap ko bata den agar ye mas'ala Aapne nahi samjha to Aap us gunah or haraam kaam me mubtila ho jaate hain of kuch hamare sunni bhai jo ilm ki kami ki wajah se  jaante hue bhi aisa karte hain or diniya or Aakhirat dono barbaad karte hain

mas'ala
Quadyani balke har bad aqeeda wahabi,dewbandi,ma dudi,shiya,tabligi etc us ke sath na kuchh khaye na piye. Na us se rishta rakhe balke us se baat hi karne ki ijazat nahi.Hozur ne farmaya Un se dur raho aur unhe apne se dur rakho"
(fatawa razviya jild 23 page no 598)

*Ek aur hadees e paak ka mafhoom pesh karta hun*

Huzoor sallallahu Alaihi wa sallam ne farmaya. (Mafhum) Tum un se kalam na karo,Un ke saath na khao, Un se Nikaah na karo, Un ke sath na baitho,Unhe khud se aise juda kar do jaise Aate me se baal ko judaa karte hai. ( mafhoom e Hadith)
(Mishkat Sharif, page-1, Hadith No.1)
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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
*الصلوة والسلام عليك يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم*
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POST NO, (21)
Aur jo log Apni ladkiyon ko gareeb sunni se na kar ke paise wale Wahabi deobandi ya kisi bhi badmazhab se shadi karte hain unke liye upar jo lambi hadees guzri kabil e amal hai unko chahiye ke Aap sunni gareeb se hi Nikah kar le ye Ap ki ladki ke liye kuwari rahne aur badmazhabon se haraam rishta karne se Achha hai Aur ladka agar sunni ho to nikah kar dena chayye chahe wo 40 saal kyun na ho ye uske haq me kuwari rahne aur badmazhabon se shaadi karne se achha hai Aur jo ladki apne se bade mard se nahi chahti shaadi karna unko Hazrat e aaisha radi Allahu anha ko dekh kar sabak hasil karna chahiye Aur Hazrat e hazra radi Allahu anha Hazrat e ibrahim alaihissalam ke dusri biwi ko dekh kar sabak hasil karna chahiye 》

Meri sunni baheno shariyat ki pabandi karo Aur Hazrat e ali ke qoul se nasihat hasil karo (Hazrat e ali radi Allahu anhu) farmte hain Zarurat puri karo khwahish nahi kyu ki zarurat Faqiron ki bhi puri ho jati hai aur khwahish badshahon ki bhi puri nahi hoti Jo shariyat me hamare liye hai wohi dunya aur Aakhirat ke liye bahtar hai agar ham apne khwahishon me doob gaye to  na khwahish puri hogi kabhi aur na dunya Aakhirat me qamyabi hansil hogi

Aur aakhari me sunni bhaiyon se jo paise ke lalach me badmazhabon se shaadi kar lete hain ya bahut baar ye bhi dekha gaya ke sunni me achhi ladki na milne par ya bohat saare wajuhaat hai ginti karaun to itna bada ek post aur likhna hoga Mere sunni Bhaiyon agar ap ki haishiyat hai to ap 1 se zyadh jitne ki haishiyat hai shaadi kariye sunni ladki se hi
Ya koi bewa hai to bewa se ya koi sunni gareeb ladki hai to usse bhi kariye Ye hamare liye bahtar hai
Apne khwahishon me na padhiye or Aakhirat ki fiqr kariye

Jo ALLAH aur uske rasool sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ne hame karne ko huqum diya  waisa hi hum sab sunni bhai baheno ko ALLAH ta'ala ba'shariyat sunnato ke mutabik Amal karne ki toufiq ata farmaye
Aur shariyat par zyadah se zyadah amal karne ki toufiq ata farmaye Apne habeeb ke sadqe tufail hamari tama'am nek jayaz muraado ko Qabool farmaye Aameen summa Aameen....
Ya Rasool-Allah Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam
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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
*الصلوة والسلام عليك يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم*
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POST NO.(22)
To mere sunni bhai baheno ye baat to Aapke samajh Aagayi hogi isse pahle waali post me ke hamara sabse pahla Qamyabi ka kadam (step) kya hai sahi ul Aqeeda Accha rishta talash karna or nek o parhezgaar  ba'saleeqa   Ba'akhlaaq or sabse Ahem baat ye ke dil me khauf e khuda or ishq e mustafa sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ka hona bohat zaroori hai or amal or taqwa bhi bohat zaroori hai aksar log kaafi nek o parhezgaar hote hain phir bhi unme gunaho ki shiddad zyada hoti uski wajah Emaan ki kamzori or ye do cheeze hoti hai dil me khauf e khuda or ishq e mustafa sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ki kami hona

sirf nek parhezgaar ladka ya ladki ke rishte ka hi nahi intekhab karna hai balke uske sath ye do sifa'at e bhi zaroor talash karni hain jo jitni zyada hogi insaan me utna hi uska muqaam zyada buland hoga or wohi har jagha kamyaab hoga or agar ye dono sifa'at ladke ya ladki me hon to phir daulat or khandaan nahi dekhna chayye  or aisi jagha rishta jordh lena chayye
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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
*الصلوة والسلام عليك يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم*
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POST NO. (23)
TAQWA: Taqwa nam hai apne aapko ALLAH ki nafarmani se bachane ka, aur us Ahsas ka naam hai ki hamare dil me hamesha ye khayal or Ahsaas ho ke ALLAH dekh raha hai
(AL QURA'AN)
*Aye Imam Walon Allah Se Daro, Aur Har Shaks Ye Dekhe keh Is Ne Kal Ke Liye Kya Agge Bheja ...?Aur Allah Se Daro- Yaqeen Rakho Ke Jo Kuch Tum karte Ho Allah Isse Puri Tarha Ba Khabar Hai-*
Reference:-(Al-Quran.Sura e Hashar 18)

*Dil Ka Saff Insan Hona or taqwa*

Or taqwa us ehsas ka nam hai ki jo bat Aapne apni zuban se boli hai Aagey chalkar us baat se kabhi aapko sharmindigi na uthani pad jaye, kabhi us baat se kisi ko takleef na pohanch jaye, ye yaad rahe ki jo kuch bhi hum apni zaban se kah rahe hain uska jawab ALLAH ke yahan dena hoga ki har waqt 2 farishte jo aapke nigehban hain Aapke tamam aqwal ko naqal karte rehte hain, aap Acha bologe to acha likhenge aur bura bologe to bura likhenge, phir yahi batein ALLAH ke huzoor pesh ki jayengi,

 *Hazrat Abdullah Bin Umar Raziallahu anhu Farmate Hain Keh Nabi E Kareem Sallahu Alahi wa salam se Pucha Gaya Keh Sab Se Afzal Shaks Kon Hai..?*

*App Sallahu Alahi wa ssalam Ne Irshad Farmaya: Saff Dil Wala Aur Zuban Ka Sacha-*

 *Sahaba Ikram Raziallahu Anhu Ne Arz Kya:  Zuban Ke Sache Hone Ka Mafhum To Hum Jante Hain Likin Dil Saaf Hone Se Kya Murad Hai.?*

*App Sallahu Alahi wa salam Ne Irshad Farmaya: Wo Mutaqi Aur Saaf Sotra Dil Jis Me Na Gunah Ho Na Bagawat Na Hi Isme Kisi Ka Kinah Ho Aur Na Kisi ke Bare Me Hasad,*

Reference:-(Sunan Ibn Majja 4206)

Ye chand moti moti  batein hain jo humein Nabi e Kareem SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WA SALLAM ki Seerat aur Sahaba RadiAllahu Anhuma ki zindagi hai jab rishta lagane ki soche to ye baaten zaroor dekh len DEENDARI, SEERAT aur KIRDAR ko tarjeeh de,
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*Ab hum ye jaante hain ke daur e haazir me kaise pata chalega ke ye do 2 sifa'at e hain ya nahi*

Yaani ladke ya ladki ke dil me khauf e khuda or ishq e mustafa sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ka hona bohat zaroori hai or amal or taqwa bhi bohat zaroori

Asaan or simple hai sirf hame ye dekhna hain ke usme Taqwa kitna hai (TAQWA) naam hai apne aapko ALLAH ki nafarmani se bachane ka, chote chote gunaaho se kitna bachne waala hai misa'al ke taur pe agar ladki hai to uska parda dekha jayega aksar Alima faazila hoti par ghar me parda nahi karti digar rishte daaro ke saamne bhi bina parda hi rahti jo ke najayaz o haraam hai

OR ISKI WAJOOHAAT wohi hai dil me khauf e khuda or ishq e mustafa sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ki kami hona ilm hona bohat badhi fazilat hai par uspar amal or gunaho se bachna ye usse badhi kamyabi hai Emaan ki kamzori ki wajah se aaj musalmaano k dillon se khaof e Aakhirat ja raha hai.or yehi musalman aurat mard aaj apni bahu betiyon biwiyon or maaon beheno k sath b bay parda ghoomnay or mardon ki ghair makhloot majaalis mai lay janay ko fashion or azaadi ka naam detay hain

Or isse hi pata chal jata hai ke Emaan ki kamzori ki wajah se walidain or behan bhaiyon k sath beth ker ghair ikhlaqi or be'pardagi walay kaam mehfilain filmain rasaalay or bay huda rasam o riwaaj ye sab ki wajah sirf or sirf imaan ki kamzori hai to ye to mukhtasar si baaten batayi hain Aurat ke mutalliq se or bohat si pahchan hain par ye waali aurat ki nek hone ki sabse ahem or bunyaadi pahchan hai jisse pata chalega ke Aurat asal me kitni deendaar hai

Q ke Asal parda wohi hai jo ALLAH or  rasool sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ki raza ki khatir kiya jaye duniya ko dikhane ke liye aurat parda kar to sakti hai par wo parada parda nahi rahta jo sirf majboori me kiya jaye.....
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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
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Kuch khawateen ke bare mein sunne mein Aata hai ki unhe Darhi nahi pasand hoti hai, isliye wo ladke par zor dalti hain ki darhi choti karwa de ya clean shave karwa de, kapde modern pahne, to main pahli baat apne un bhaiyo se kahunga ki ALLAH ki ibadat aur Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ki Sunnat ko karne mein kisi bhi tarah se BIWI ya kisi ki bhi ijazat ki zaroorat nahi hai aur agar uske kahne par aise kam karwa le to ALLAH ki Mohabbat aur RASOOLALLAH sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ki mohabbat se bhi badh kar hogi jiski Shariyat mein koi jagah nahi balki ye beghairti ki Alamat hai.

Shariyat par amal karne ke liye kisi ko Raazi karna zaroori nahi hai. Namaz padhne ke liye kisi ki ijazat hona zaroori nahi hai, darhi rakhne mein kisi ki ijazat ki zaroorat nahi hai, Quran mein ALLAH ne farmaya ki Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ki muhabbat tum logo mein sabse zyada honi chahiye, agar aap apni hone biwi ke kahne par apni darhi ko chota karwayenge, aur apne izar ko takhno se niche karenge to biwi ki muhabbat, Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ki muhabbat se badh jayegi.

Ab main apni un muslim Behno se ye kahna chahta hun ki agar Apka khawind DEEN mein badh chadhkar hissa leta hai to use rokiye mat, balki use support kariye, Apke rokne se use bhi gunah padega, aur aap khud sochiye ki aapka kya hoga, kya Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ki sunnat ko chehre se hatwa kar aap Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ke hath se Hauze Qausar ka pani pi le payengi? Kya aap apni shakal Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ko dikha payengi? Kya aap sunant se rokne ke ilzam mein ALLAH ki giraft mein nahi aa jayanegi?

Maidan-e-Hashr ka wo manzar sochiye jab ALLAH kahenga ki toone mere Nabi ki darhi se itna bair rakha ki apne shauhar ke chehre se hatwa di? Kya jawab hoga aap ke pas?

ALLAH TA'ALA hum sabko kahne sunne se zyada Amal ki taufeeq Ata farmaye or Raza e Ilaahi or sunnat e mustafa sallallahu alaihi wa sallam par zindagi guzaarne ki taufiq ata farmaye  Aameen. ..
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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
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Or ab mukhtasar si pahchan ladko ke mutalliq se bhi bayan kar dete hain apne ilm ke mutabik ladka agar dil me khauf e khuda or ishq e mustafa sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ki sacchi mohabbat rakhta hoga to Taqwa or saadgi pasand hoga zyada kharchelu nahi hoga waqt ki or har cheez ki Qadr karne waala hoga or dadhi ( beard ) rakhne waala hoga or sunnat e Rasool sallallahu alaihi wa sallam par Amal or mohabbat karne waala hoga yaani sunnato ka pa'band hoga or agar kisi majboori ki wajah se halan ke sacche Ashiq e Rasool sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ke liye koi majboori nahi hoti phir bhi agar kisi majboori ki wajah se (beard) Dadhi na rakhta ho to uske dost ahbaab ko dekha jayega

 Q ke insaan dikhawe ka kitna hi Accha Q na ban jaye uski sohbat usks mahsul or taur tareeqa bata deta hai ke uska kin kaamo me dil zyada lagta hai Agar uske dost Aise hain jo deen se bohat door hain or ye unhi ki sohbat me rahta hai aksar to wo kitna hi badha nek or parhezgaar Q na ban jaye jab tak sohbat nahi badalti us waqt tak Emaan pukhta nahi hota misaal ke taur pe koi shaqs namaz bhi padhta hai or gunaho me bhi mubtila rahta to iski wajah Emaan ki kamzori hi hoti or wo namaz k lutf or lazzat se mahroom rahta hai
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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
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Aaj kal ek bat bohat sunne mein Aati hai ki jab ladke ya ladki ki shadi hone wali hoti hai to wo Namaz padhne lagte hain, acha akhlaq dikhana shuru kar dete hain, tahzeeb aur tameez ka jhootha chola Odh kar apne apko bohat Accha dikhane ki koshish karte hain unse meri iltija hai ki jis tarah aap dikhane ki koshish karte hain hamesha ke liye Aise he ho jaiye aur Namaz aur ache Ekhlaq hamesha ke liye pakad lijiye warna ye dikhawe ki namaze aur dikhawe ke Ekhlaq Aapki zindigi aur akhirat ko tabah wa barbad kar denge.

Kuch logo ko dekha hai ki shadi se pahle bht achi tarah namazo ki pabandi karte they, DEEN ke aur bhi bht sare kam anjam diya karte hain lekin shadi ke kuch din bad he namaze chhootne lagti hain, DEEN ke kamo se bachne lagte hain, aur agar koi dusra dawat de to kahte phirte hain ki tumahre upar zimmedari ho to tum jano, aur pata nahi kya kya… main unhe ye batana chahata hun ki wo eklote nahi hain jinki shadi hui hai, Ambiya alaihi mussalatu wasslam ki bhi shadiya hui thi, Muhammad-e-Arabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam bhi shadiya hui, Abu Bakr, Umar, Usman aur Ali Radiallahu anhuma ki bhi shadiya hui, iske bad tama'am Sahaba e kiraam ne bhi shadiya ki, Aimma Arba Radiallahu anhuma ne bhi shadiya ki,  tabayi aur tabe tabayi jo log they unhone ne bhi shadiya ki, aur Aajtak ke ulema aur mashayekh ko dekh lijiye shadiya karte hain, lekin DEEN se kabhi kisi ne compromise nahi kiya, kisi ne shadi aur biwi ko DEEN par amal na karne ki dhal nahi banaya, kat gaye, khoon de diya, jane de di lekin har zimmedari ke sath sath DEEN ki zimmedari ko bhi pura kiya.

Mere pyare sunni bhai baheno ye jo bhi rishta dhoondne ke MUTA'ALIQ baate bayan ki hain isse ummeed karte hain ke Aap sabko ye to samajh Aagaya hoga ke hame Apna pahla kadam kya uthaana hai
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*NIKAH KE TALLUQ SE KUCH AHEM BAATE*
           
Aurat ko nikah ka paigam aur daawat dena aur baat cheet ke bad Shaadi ka ahad karna aur shaadi ki baat pukhta karlena mangni kahlata hai

Mangni azdawaji zindagi ki pahli seedhi hai-ye pahla qadam soch samajh kar aur danish mandi se uthana chahiye,
Q k yaha se hi zindagi ki buniyad padhti hai,aur azdawaji zindagi ki buniyad mangni hi hai,is marhale me ladki aur ladka ka intekhab karte hai,aur ek doosre ko pasand karte hai,is marhale me jo intekhab hojata hai fir us intekhab ko nikah ke zariye rishta azdawaj me munsalik kardiya jaata hai.

Azdawaji zindagi ki kamiyabi ka inhesar is pahle qadam par hota hai,isliye zaroori hai ke ye qadam bade soch samajh kar chhan been karke ladke aur ladki ki zahni hum Aahingi ko dekhte huwe uthana chahiye,isme kisi qism ki jald baazi se kaam nahi lena chahiye.

Zindagi ka pahla zeena ye hai ke mard apne liye kisi aisi aurat ka intekhab kare jo nek,pak ba saleeqa sha’ar ,taleem yafta aur husn-e akhlaq wali ho,aur mard ko aurat ki soorat par seerat ko tarjeeh dena chahiye,aur aurat ko aise khawind ka intekhab karna chahiye jo deen par amal karne wala ho aur Ekhlaq-e husna ka malik ho,taaleem yafta ho aql mand aur samjhdar ho…

Hadees pak me huzoor salllahu alaih wasallam ne ne irshad farmaya ke jab tumhare pas koi aisa shakhs nikah ka kapaigam bhejhe jiske deen aur Ekhlaq se tum razi ho to us se nikah kara do,agar aisa na karo ge to zameen me fitna aur lamba chauda fasad ronuma hoga.

ALLAHU AKBAR……
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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
*الصلوة والسلام عليك يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم*
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Ek aur hadees-e pak me hai? Hazrat abu huraira radiallahu anhu se riwayat hai ke nabi e kareem sallallahu Alaihi wa sallam ne farmaya ke kisi aurat se chaar cheezon ki wajah se nikah kiya jata hai,uske husn-o jamal ki wajah se aur uske hasb-o nasb ki wajah se aur uske deen ki wajah se,lekin dekho tum deen wali aurat se nikah karna.

Afsos sad afsos aaj kal aksar log ye sab nahi dekhte balke ye dekhte hai ke ladki wale yaa ladke wale kitne maaldar hai,
Aur ladke walao ka to jawab hi nahi hota ladke walon ka to yahi kahna hota hai ke mujhe ladki haseen-o jameel ke saath saath daulat bhi milni chahiye,tarah tarah ki mange ki jaati hai jahez k naam per ,
Bechara ladki ka baap rat ki tanhayee me apne aansu baha baha ke zindagi basar karta hai.

Kya hum ne kabhi socha is bat ko ek din hamare saath bhi yahi ho sakta hai ??,hamari bhi bari Aasakti hai. ??
Tab ehsas hoga….  Isliye mere doston aap sabse meri ilteja hai aaj se ahad karle ham sab ke apni zindagi ko khush gawar banayen ge aur apne nikah me nek Seerat ba Ekhlaq ba kirdar ladki ko layen ge aur jahez ki mang nahi karenge.
(In shaa ALLAH)

Ek aham bat ye hai ke , mangni ya nikah karne se pahle ladki ko dekhlene me koi harj nahi hai balke zaroor dekh lena chahiye,,  Hadees shareef me hai Nikaah Se Pehle Ladki ko Dekhna:

Hazrath Muhammad Salama Kehte Hai Ki Maine Ek Aurat Ko Nikah Ka Paighaam Diya, Mai Use Dekhne K Liye Us K Baagh Me Chhup Kar Jaya Karta Tha Yahan Tak Ki Maine Use Dekh Liya Kisi Ne Kaha Aap Aisi Harkat Kyu Karte Hai

Halanki Aap Huzoor K Sahabi Hai, To Maine Kaha Huzoor Ne Irshaad Farmaya
“Jab Allah Ta’ala Kisi K Dil Me Kisi Aurat Se Nikah Ki Khwahish Daale Aur Wo Use Paighaam De To Us Ki Jaanib Dekhne Me Koi Harj Nahi.

(Ibne Maja Vol: 01, Page: 523 , Baab No: 597 , Hadees No: 1931)

Yaha se ye baath sabit hui k nikah se pahle ladki ko ek nazar dekhlena jaiz hai…, ye ajeeb bat hai ke jinki shaadi honi hai aur dono ne ek doosre ka bistar banna hai aur jinhon ne ek saath zindagi basar karni hai unka ek doosre ko dikha na, ek doosre ko pasand karna bahut mayoob tasawwur kiya jata hai aur unko ek doosre se milne ki ijazat nahi dijati,joke islam ki taaleemat ke bilkul khilaf hai.Yaani Agar ladka Ladki ek doosre ko ek nazar dekhna chahen to dekhne me koi harz nahi
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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
*الصلوة والسلام عليك يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم*
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*🌹Nikaah Ek Behtareen Sunnat Hai or jo sunnat e Nikaah ko poora karne ki ta'aqat rakhta ho or Nikah na Kare uske liye Mere Nabi ka farmaan Sama'at farmaye🌹*

Huzoor (Sallalaho Alaihi Wa sallam) Ne Irshaad Farmaya, “Nikaah Meri Sunnat Hai, Agar Koi Meri Sunnat Par Amal Na Kare, Uska Mujh Se Koi Taalluq Nahi.”

📚(Ibne Majah 1846)

Hazrat Ibne Abbas (Radiallaho Anhu) Se
Riwayat Hai Ke, Huzoor (Sallalaho Alayhi
Wasallam) Ne Irshad Farmaya, “Gawaho Ke Bagair Nikaah Karne Wali Aurate Jaaniya
(Zina Karnewali) Hai”.

📚(Tirmizi Sharif, Jild-1, Safa-563, Hadees No. 1095, Baab No. 751)

Baaligh Aurat Ka Nikaah Uski Marzi Ke Khilaaf Koi Nahi Kar Sakta, Na Uska Baap Na Baadshah- E-Waqt.
📚(Bukhari Sharif)

Hazrat Gause Aazam (Radiallahu Anhu) Farmate Hai, “Nikaah Jumerat (Thursday)
Ya Jumma (Friday) Ko Karna Must’hab Hai, Aur Subah Ki Bajaye Shaam Ke Waqt Nikah Behtar Karna Hain.”

📚(Gunyatuttalebi -n, Baab No. 5, Safa : 115)

Musalman Aurat Ka Nikaah Musalman Mard Ke Siwa Kisi Bhi Mazhab wale Se Nahi Ho Sakta.

📚(Qanoone Shariyat Jild :2)

Jisne Apni Beti Ka Nikaah Sharabi Mard-Se Kiya, Tuo Usne (Beti Ko) Zina Karne Ke Liye Rukhsat Kiya.

📚(Tanbia Ul Gafilin. S:-169)

Hazrat Abdullah Bin Masud RadiallahuTa’ala Anho Se Riwayat hai ke Sarkar Sallalaho Alaihi Wa sallam ne irshad farmaya:  “Aye Jawano Jo tum me se Aurato ke Hukooq (Haq) ada karne ki takat rakhta hai  To wo Nikah zarur kare Kyunki Nikah Nigah Ko jukata hai   Aur Sharmgah ki hifazat karta hai aur Jo iski takat na rakhe to woh Roza Rakhe Kyunki ye Shahwat Ko kam karta hai

(Bukhari sharif, Jild 3, Safa 52, Tirmizi sharif, Jild 1, Safa, 533)

             .........Jazakh ALLAH………..
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🌹🌹🌹🌹NIKAH KI FAZILAT🌹🌹🌹🌹

Nikah ka lugwi maana hai aisa contract jiske nateeje me Mard aur Aurat ek dusre par halaal ho jaayen

“NIKAH karna sunnat hai iski haisiyat rakhne ke bawajood nikah na kare wah nabi  Sallallaho Alihe Wasallam ke tareeqe  par nahi hai jo shaqs zina se bachne ke liye nikah karta hai ALLAH TA'ALA uski madad karta hai nikah na  karne se zameen me fasaad paida hota hai Nikah karne se jitni miyan biwi  me muhabbat hoti hai aur kisi me nahi hoti, NIKAH Aadha deen hai mardo ke liye aurton se badkar koi fitna nahi”

 “kunwari Ladki se nikah karna behtar hai maal wa khoobsoorti hasab  nasab ka khyaal na kare balki deen daar aurat se nikah kare, musalman ke liye Nek aurat se badhkar  aur koi cheez nahi hai jis nikah me  kam kharch ho usme barkat zyada hoti hai,

 jis aurat se nikah karna chahta hai use ek baar dekh le kyonki ek baar dekhne se muhabbat paida hogi,  nikah ke waqt Aurat se ijazat lena zaroori hai agar kunwari hai to  uska chup rahna kaafi hai aur talaaqshuda ko zabaan se kahna chahiye, bina sarparast ke nikah sahi nahi agar koi wali na ho to haakim wali  hai ek aadmi ke paighaam ke hote
dusre ko paighaam dena mana hai”
            📚(mishkaat 262,266,269,268 )

:JINSE NIKAH JAYEZ NAHI:

1- sauteli maa
2- sagi maa
3- beti
4-bahan
5- fufi
6- khala
7- bhateeji
8- bhaanji
9- dhoodh wali maa (daai)
10- saas
11- biwi ki beti jo pahle shauhar se ho
12- sage beton ki biwi se
13- do sagi bahno se ek saath

Nikah me biwi aur uski fufi ko jama karna  (yani ek sath inko nikah me rakhna haraam hai) aur isi tarah biwi wa uski khala ka jama karna bhi haram hai, musalman mard ka nikah mushrika
aurat se aur musalman aurat ka nikah mushrik mard se haraam hai,  behtar hai ki mushrika ke mukaable me musalman laundi se nikaah kare isi tarah iman wali aurat   ghulam se nikah kare magar mushrik mard se nikah na kare,

      📚( mishkaat, bukhaari, surah nisa)
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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
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*🌹RISHTE TAYE KARNE KA MIYA'AR🌹*

 Rasool-Ul-Allah Sallahu Alahiwassalam Ne Irshad Farmaya: *Jab Tumare Pass(Behan Beti Ke Liye) Koi Aisa Shaks Nikah Ka Paigam Bheje Jis Ki Deendari Aur Aqlaq Ku Tum Pasand Karte Ho To Us Se (Apni Behan Beti)ka Nikah Kardo Agar Tum Aisa Nahin Karoge To Zameen Me Fitna Aur Fasad Azeem Barpa Hoga*
Reference:-(Sunan Termizi 1084)

*Rishta Tai Karne Me Ladke Ki Maldari Na Dekhen* *Beti Ka Rishta Ek Neak Sifat Aur Saleih*

Magar rishta Gareeb Ladke Ke Liye Manga Gaya To Maa Bap Ne Inkar Kardiya-Phir Isi Ghar Me Ek Bigde Howe Magar Ameer Gharane Ke Rishta Ayya To Ye Keh Kar Qubool Karliya Gaya Keh Allah Pak Is Ladke Ku Hidayet De Ga Aur Ye Neak Banjaye Ga-*

*Jo Allah Bigde Howe Ladke Ku Hidayat De Sakta Hai Kya Wo Gareeb Ladke Ku Mali Farawani Nahin De Sakta..??*
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*NAJAYAZ RASAM O RIWAAJ KE MUTA'ALIK JO HUM,NE BEHAYI KO AAM KAR RAKHA HAI*

Jab tak Islam Arab ki sarzameen tak mehdood raha us waqt tak musalmano ka muashra aur unka tarze zindagi bilkul hi seedha sadha aur har kism ki Rusomaat aur bid'at-o-khurafaat se paak raha lekin jab Islam Arab se bahar dusre mulkon mein pahoncha to dusri Kaumon aur dusre mazhab waalon ke mailjhol aur unke maahaul ka Islaami Mua'ashra aur Musalmano ke tareeqe zindagi par bahut zyaada asar pada. Kuffar-o-Musrikeeen aur Yahoodo-o-Nasaara ki bahut si galat salat aur mandhadak rasmon ka Musalmano par aisa zabardast hamla huwa ke Islami Mu-aashra ka chehra maskh ho gaya(mit gaya) aur musalmaan rasmon rivaaj ki balaon mein giriftaar hokar Sahaba -e-Kiraam ki seedhi saadhi Islaami tarze zindagi se bahut dur ho gaye.

Shadiyon se mutallik galat rasmein- Dulha aur Dulhan ko ubtan malwana to jaayaz hai par dulhe ko khule me baith ke malwana najayaz hai jaisa ke Aaj kal dulhe ko baitha dita jata or wo khud nahi balke kisi or se malwata jaata ye jihaalat or kam,ilmi hai

 or dulhe ke haath paon mein zeenat ke liye mehendi lagaana naajayaz hai.

Yunhi dulhe ko reshmi poshaakh ya zewaraat pehenna ya pehenwaana haraam hai khaalis phulon ka sehra jaayaz hai. Sone chandi ke taaron, lachon wagairah ka bana huwa haar ya sehra dulhe ke liye haraam aur dulhan ke liye jaayaz hai.

Aaj kal shehron mein mangni, haldi aur peethi ki rasm manaae jaati hai jis mein ladke aur ladkiyaan aapas mein hanste khelte hain khelte hain, saath mein nachte gaate hain, bepardagi aam hoti hai, Isee tarah shaadi biyaah mein Salaam karayi me dulhe ko makaan ke andar bulaana aur aurton ka bepardah uske saamne aakar ya taank-jhaankar usko dekhna usse saaliyon wagairah ka mazaakh karna, dulhe ke jooton ko churaa lena fir zabardasti dulhe se Enaam wasool karna yeh sab rasmein najayaz-o-haraam hain.
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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
*الصلوة والسلام عليك يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم*
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*SHADI ME FIZOOL KHARCHI OR USKA NUQSAN*

Ek Ajeeb bojh sa hai is ma'ashere par ki DEEN ek, Islam ek, Quran ek Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ek lekin shadi se pehle aur bad ki takreebat har jagah alag alag, aisa kyun? Aaj hum ne Nikah ko itna mushkil bana diya hai ki shadi karne se pehle har kisi ke zehen mein uska kharch pehle he aa jata hai, ki fala jagah itna paisa lagega, fala jagah itna paisa lagega, aur fala jagah itna paisa. Kuch gao aur dehat to aise aise hain ki jahan shadi ki takreebat ek ek mahina chalti hain, aur har din khawateen alag rang ke kapde pehenti hain, kisi din orange colour ke, kisi din green colour ke, kisi din yellow aur kisi din red colour ke. Kuch gao aur dehat aise hain jahan par choti mangni, badi mangni aur darmiyani mangni ke nam par rituals ijad ho chuki hai,

choti aur badi to suni thi ab ye ek nayi cheez aayi hai darmiyani mangni. Khair gao dehat ki chhodiye shehro mein bade bure halat hain, shadi se pehle 4 se 5 din to reeti riwajo ki wo dhoom hoti hai ki lagta he nahi ki kisi Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam ke ummati ki shadi hai Pak-o-Hind mein to achi khasi rusumat kuffar ki li hui hain jinka Islam se koi wasta he nahi hai.
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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
*الصلوة والسلام عليك يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم*
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*RASMEIN DEEN NAHI HOTI AUR DEEN MEIN KOI BHI RASM NAHI HAI…*

MAANJHA: Ye rasm shadi se 2 din pehle hoti hai aur iska koi suboot pure quran mein aur tamam zakheera-e-hadees mein nahi milega, maine to Aaj tak nahi paaya lekin aaj bila tafreeke mazhab ye tamam fiqro maktab ke pairokaro ke gharo mein hoti hai, isme uptan lagaya jata hai ladki aur ladke ke uske bad usi uptan se khela jata hai sari rat bs yahi udham machaya jata hai, ye rasm hinduo se aayi hai unke yahan shadiyo mein ise baqayeda ek rasm ke taur par mana jata hai aur iska karna zaroori hota hai.

RATJAGA: Ye bhi ek rasm hai Bara'at ke jaane se ek din pehle, isme tamam gharwale aur aaye huey mehman ratbhar jagte hain, ratbhar siwaye gane bajane ke aur kuch nahi hota hai sari rat hasi thahake aur tafreeh aur mazak ka mahaul rehta hai, is rasm ka suboot bhi kahin bhi na Quran mein milta hai aur na he hadees-e-Mubarika mein.

Aaj daure hazir ke musalmano ke zehno mein jashn manane ka sabse badhiya tareeka jo naksh hai wo ye hai 2 3 bade bade speaker laye jaye aur jam kar sara sara din aur sari sari rat shaitan ka sath nibhaya jaye. Raat raat bhar bas speaker bja karte hain aur usme ladkiya aur kahin kahin sath mein ladke bhi nacha karte hain.

ASTAGFIRULLAH ALLAH TA'ALA hum,sabko aise be'hayayee waale kaamo se mahfooz rakhe Aameen
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 *بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم*
*الصلوة والسلام عليك يا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم*
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